"Letting go doesn't mean giving up... it means moving on. It is one of the hardest things a person can do. Starting at birth, we grasp on to anything we can get our hands on, and hold on as if we will cease to exist when we let go. We feel that letting go is giving up, quitting, and that as we all know is cowardly. But as we grow older we are forced to change our way of thinking. We are forced to realize that letting go means accepting things that cannot be. It means maturing and moving on, no matter how hard you have to fight yourself to do so." ~ Unknown

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One day you’ll love me, the way I loved you. One day you’ll think of me the way I thought of you. One day you’ll cry for me, the way I cried for you. One day you’ll want me, but I won’t want you…

People never know how special someone is until they leave, but maybe sometimes it's important to leave, so they are given that chance to see how special that someone really is...

Some of the biggest challenges in relationships come from the fact that most people enter a relationship in order to get something: they’re trying to find someone who’s going to make them feel good. In reality, the only way a relationship will last is if you see your relationship as a place that you go to give, and not a place that you go to take. ~Anthony Robbins

Take a photography tour. If you don't have a digital camera, buy a few disposable ones -- they're not that expensive. Then wander around and take pictures. This is best for creative, fun-loving types. You can take pictures of each other in wacky poses with all kinds of faces; you can photograph things big and small, from unique angles. And you'll have something to remember the date by - how romantic!

People are capable of falling in and out of love so if your "true love" turns out to be abusive or makes you cry more than smile, end it and find a healthy person to love. Unconditional love does not care about that though. If you are going to be selfish and care about yourself you will never be in love

Take a walk. Whether it's in a park, or downtown, or wherever, walking for the sake of walking is a good way to see how you and your date get along. Can you two hold a conversation? Are your silences uncomfortable, or do you glance at each other and smile?

There is no future, there is no past. I live this moment as my last. There's only us, there's only this; forget regret, or life is yours to miss, no other road, no other way, no day but today......

remember people can’t make you happy, only you can. Sure others bring something to the table, but at the end of the day you need to know what makes you happy and what will keep you happy.

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Derick: I guess we are the left-overs in this world.


Lily: I think so...all of my friends have boyfriends, and we are the only the 2 people left in this world without any special person in our lives.


Derick: Yup, I don't know what to do.


Lily: I know! We'll play a game.


Derick: What game?


Lily: I'll be your girlfriend for 30 days and you will be my boyfriend.


Derick: That's a great plan, in fact, I don't have anything to do much for the following few weeks.


DAY 1: They watch their first movie and they both are touched by the romantic film.


DAY 4: They went go to the beach and have a picnic. Derick and Lily have their quality time together.


DAY 12: Derick invited Lily to a circus and they ride through a Horror House. Lily was scared and she thought she touched Derick's hand but she actually touched someone else's hand they both laughed.


DAY 15: They saw a fortune teller down the road, and they asked for their future advice.The fortune teller said: "My darlings, please don't waste the time of your life, spend the rest of your time together, happily." Then tears flowed out from the teller's eyes.


DAY 20: Lily invited Derick to go to the hill and they saw a meteor; Lily mumbled something.


DAY 28: They sat on the bus, and because of a bumpy road Lily gave her first kiss to Derick by accident.


DAY 29: 11:37 pm: Lily and Derick sat in the park where they first decided to play this game.


Derick: I'm tired Lily...Do you want anything to drink? I'll buy you one...I'll just go down the road.


Lily: An Apple Juice, that's all. Thank you.


Derick: Wait for me.


20 minutes later A stranger approached Lily


Stranger: Are you a friend of Derick?


Lily: Yes, why? What happened?


Stranger: A reckless drunk driver ran over Derick, and he is in critical condition in the hospital.


11:57 pm:The doctor walked out of the emergency room; he handed Lily an apple juice and a letter.


Doctor: We found this in Derick's pocket.


Lily reads the letter and it says: Lily, These past few weeks, I realized you are a really cute girl, and I am really falling for you-your cherished smile, your everything when we played this game. Before this game ends, I would like you to be my girlfriend for the rest of my life.I love you, Lily.


Lily crumpled up the paper and shouted:


"Derick! I don't want you to die-I love you; remember that night when we saw a meteor and I mumbled something. I mumbled that I wish we would be together forever and that we would never have to end this game. Please don't leave me Derick .. I love you! You can't do this to me!"


Then the clock strikes 12...


Derick's heart stopped pumping...


It was the 30th day.

Create romance within yourself first. We often try to "get" our partners to be more romantic by believing we need to change them in order to have what we want. The truth is that you are much more likely to have what you want when 'you' show up in that way. For example, create your own romantic mood--dress, put on music, prepare sensuous foods, take some time to love and appreciate yourself. It will not take long for your partner to join in the fun!

But like all things, love takes work and understanding and is never easily obtained. True love takes patience and compromise from both sides. When this is accomplished, it can flourish for many, many years.

im in love :P

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Girls can give their heart away but they can't take it back, and they know it. If you aren't going to be a worthy keeper of her heart, don't try to win it.

People are capable of falling in and out of love so if your "true love" turns out to be abusive or makes you cry more than smile, end it and find a healthy person to love. Unconditional love does not care about that though. If you are going to be selfish and care about yourself you will never be in love - see commitments.

Never say you don't have a chance with someone when you haven't even asked. Let your heart speaks.....

"Find somebody new to love someday..take the time you need to heal, but don't forget to eventually share ur heart with someone."