kenapa kita ditinggalkan :(

‎Before you speak,listen ¤ Before you write,think ¤ Before you spend,earn ¤ Before you invest,steady financial ¤ Before you check,do survey ¤ Before you ambush,investigate ¤ Before you criticize,wait&look at our own self ¤ Before you pray,forgive ¤ Before you quit,try again ¤ Before you retire,save as much you can ¤ Before you die,repent&pray to God and Give all to your love ones '

"Perfect love is rare indeed - for to be a lover will require that you continually have the subtlety of the very wise, the flexibility of the child, the sensitivity of the artist, the understanding of the philosopher, the acceptance of the saint, the tolerance of the scholar and the fortitude of the certain." - Leo F. Buscaglia (1924-1998) American Psychologist, Author, Educator

Christina Perri - Jar of Hearts

I know I can't take one more step towards you

Cause all that's waiting is regret
And don't you know I'm not your ghost anymore
You lost the love I loved the most

I learned to live half alive
And now you want me one more time

And who do you think you are
Running 'round leaving scars
Collecting your jar of hearts
And tearing love apart
You're gonna catch a cold
From the ice inside your soul
So don't come back for me
Who do you think you are

I hear you're asking all around
If I am anywhere to be found
But I have grown too strong
To ever fall back in your arms

And I've learned to live half alive
And now you want me one more time

And who do you think you are
Running 'round leaving scars
Collecting your jar of hearts
And tearing love apart
You're gonna catch a cold
From the ice inside your soul
So don't come back for me
Who do you think you are

Dear, it took so long just to feel alright
Remember how to put back the light in my eyes
I wish I had missed the first time that we kissed
Cause you broke all your promises
And now you're back
You don't get to get me back

And who do you think you are
Running 'round leaving scars
Collecting your jar of hearts
And tearing love apart
You're gonna catch a cold
From the ice inside your soul
So don't come back for me
Don't come back at all

And who do you think you are
Running 'round leaving scars
Collecting your jar of hearts
And tearing love apart
You're gonna catch a cold
From the ice inside your soul
Don't come back for me
Don't come back at all
Who do you think you are?
Who do you think you are?
Who do you think you are?

"A bell's not a bell 'til you ring it - A song's not a song 'til you sing it - Love in your heart wasn't put there to stay - Love isn't love 'til you give it away!" - Oscar Hammerstein (1895-1960) American Song Writer

"What we need to know about loving is no great mystery. We all know what constitutes loving behavior; we need but act upon it, not continually question it. Over-analysis often confuses the issue and in the end brings us no closer to insight. We sometimes become too busy classifying, separating, and examining, to remember that love is easy. It's we who make it complicated." - Leo F. Buscaglia (1924-1998) American Psychologist, Author, Educator

“If you have to think about whether you love someone or not then the answer is no. When you love someone you just know.”

"Love means to commit oneself without guarantee, to give oneself completely in the hope that our love will produce love in the loved person. Love is an act of faith, and whoever is of little faith is also of little love." - Erich Fromm (1900-1980) German-American Psychoanalyst, Social Philosopher

"Love is an act of endless forgiveness, a tender look which becomes a habit." - Peter Ustinov (1921-2004) English Actor, Author, Director

forgive doesnt mean forget, it mean u will let go of it and not bring it on later. if u still bring it up in the future it mean u simply still not forgive it.

how much do you love someone?

so in love with this song :)

Anuar Zain - The Memories Remain

i can see the sadness in your eyesand every teardrop that you cryi hope you knowit's hard to let you go
the time is here i have to say goodbyei laid my life i've seen the lighti hope you knowit's hard to let you go
i swear to be the shadow by your sideto be the shining starto light the darkness of your nighti will survive
*in the endas i cross the line of life and theni find my way back in your heart againand i promise i will stayforever and a daythe memories remain
i wanna be the pillar of your strengthto give you hope until the endno matter where i will be thereas long as you will let me stayi'll be with you through night and dayno matter when and where i will be there
i swear to be the shadow by your sideto be the shining starto light the darkness of your nightyou will survivekeep me alive
repeat * 2x

how bad could it be? but remember, not be in there with the one that you love is worse.

saya paham betapa susahnya nak lupakan sesorang, terutamya seseorang yang telah memainkan peranan yang cukup besar dalam hidup kita. yang mengajar erti rindu, yang mengajar tentang kasih sayang, yang membuat kita anggau, yang membuat kita jadi tak menentu. memang susah nak lupakan seseorang macam ni. keranan janji-janji manis, kerana kata-kata manis. waktu tu semuanya indah indah belaka. kenangan inilah yang sukar nak dilupakan sebenarnya kan kan :)

I don't know if I like you or love you, want you or need you, all I know is I love the feeling I get when I'm near you. :)

the thing about relationship is either u r in or u r out. if u r in, handle it but if u r out, stop telling a victim story. Victim story = Someone had done something and you felt they are partly to blame for what has happened. Someone to deceive you, bring out you unfairly, deceive you, betray the trust you have put on them and you think you not to blame, but instead, them.

Sometimes you walk past a pretty girl on the street and there's something beyond beauty in her face, something warm and smart and sensual and inviting, and in the three seconds you have to look at her, you actually fall in love, and in those moments, you can actually know the taste of her kiss, the feel of her skin against yours, the sound of her laugh, how she'll look at you and make you whole. And then she's gone, and in the five seconds afterwards, you mourn her loss with more sadness than you'll ever admit to.

There comes a point where you just love someone. Not because they're good, or bad, or anything really. You just love them. It doesn't mean you'll be together forever. It doesn't mean you won't hurt each other. It just means you love them. Sometimes in spite of who they are, and sometimes because of who they are. And you know that they love you, sometimes because of who you are, and sometimes in spite of it.~ Laurell K. Hamilton 'Anita Blake: Incubus Dreams'

‎" Jangan terlalu menyayangi seseorang, kelak kita akan membencinya. Jangan pula terlalu membenci seseorang, kelak kita akan menyayanginya."

selama ini, kata-kata itu hanyalah kata-kata belaka.... adakah ia benar dan jujur seperti yang dikata... atau hanya untuk menyedapkan hati sahaja. mungkin kadang-kadang kita lupa... atau buat-buat lupa... kerana kita tahu... ianya hanyalah tipu belaka. kita takut..... kerana kejujuran itu amatlah pahit,.... pahit untuk ditelan..... tolonglah, berhenti menyebut 3 perkataan itu, sekiranya kau tak maksudkannya.