The Rules from MAN

We always hear "the rules" from the female side. Now here are the rules
from the male side. These are our rules! Please note ... these are
all numbered '1' ON PURPOSE!

1. Learn to work the toilet seat. You're a big girl. If it's up, put
it down. We need it up, you need it down. You don't hear us
complaining about you leaving it down.

1. Shopping is NOT a sport. And no, we are never going to think of
it that way.

1. Crying is blackmail.

1. Ask for what you want. Let us be clear on this one: Subtle hints
do not work! Strong hints do not work! Obvious hints do not work! Just say it!

1. Yes, and No are perfectly acceptable answers to almost every question.

1. Come to us with a problem only if you want help solving it.
That's what we do. Sympathy is what your girlfriends are for.

1. A headache that lasts for 17 months is a problem. See a doctor.

1. Anything we said 6 months ago is inadmissible in an argument.
In fact, all comments become null and void after 7 days.

1. If you won't dress like the Victoria's Secret girls, don't expect
us to act like soap opera guys.

1. If you think you're fat, you probably are. Don't ask us.

1. If something we said can be interpreted two ways, and one of the
ways makes you sad or angry, we meant the other one.

1. You can either ask us to do something or tell us how you want it
done. Not both. If you already know best how to do it, just do it yourself.

1. Whenever possible, please say whatever you have to say
during commercials.

1. Christopher Columbus did not need directions and neither do we.

1. ALL men see in only 16 colors, like Windows default settings. Peach,
for example, is a fruit, not a color. Pumpkin is also a fruit. We have
no idea what mauve is.

1. If it itches, it will be scratched. We do that.

1. If we ask what is wrong and you say "nothing," we will act
like nothing's wrong. We know you are lying, but it is just not worth
the hassle.

1. If you ask a question you don't want an answer to, expect an
answer you don't want to hear.

1. When we have to go somewhere, absolutely anything you wear is fine.
Really.

1. Don't ask us what we're thinking about unless you are prepared
to discuss such topics as baseball, the shotgun formation, or monster
trucks.

1. You have enough clothes.

1. You have too many shoes.

1. I am in shape. Round is a shape.

1. Thank you for reading this; Yes, I know, I have to sleep on the
couch tonight, but did you know men really don't mind that, it's like
camping.

Dear Girls (from us guys)...

*Don't assume that guys won't care where you are, because we do.
It makes us feel secure to know that our girlfriends aren't off flirting with guys we've never heard of.


*Also, don't talk about your ex-boyfriends.
We never have, nor ever will respect or like them, nor do we want to hear about them.
When you do, you're asking your boyfriend to be jealous.
You're asking your boyfriend to lose trust.


*On that, don't hump everything that walks into the room.
We don't care if you talk to other guys.
We don't care if you're friends with other guys.
But when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off.
It doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we're still there.


*Also, when we tell you you're pretty/ beautiful/ gorgeous/ cute/ stunning, we freaking mean it.
Don't tell us we're wrong.
We'll stop trying to convince you.
The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence.
Yeah, you can quote me.


*Don't be mad when we hold the door open.
Smile and say "thank you."
Let us pay for you.
Don't "feel bad."
We enjoy doing it.
It's expected.
Smile and say - everybody together now - "thank you."


*Kiss us when no one's watching.
If you kiss us when you know nobody's looking we'll be more impressed.


*You don't have to get dressed up for us.
If we're going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have, put on every kind of makeup you own.
We like you for WHO you are and not WHAT you are.


*Don't flirt with guys when we're not around.
We'll find out. Trust us.
We have eyes everywhere.
And when we find out, we're pissed.
Not necessarily with the guys you flirted with, more-so with you.


*Don't take everything we say seriously.
Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it.
Don't get angry easily.
Stop using magazines/media as your bible.


*Don't talk about how hot Tom Cruise or Brad Pitt is in front of us.
It's boring, and we don't care.
You have girlfriends for that.


*Whatever happened to the word "handsome"?
Why does everything have to be "hot/sexy"?
I'd be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me with "Hey handsome!" instead of "Hey baby/ stud/ cutie/ sexy" or whatever else you can think of.
Claiming girls or guys to be "hot" shows immaturity.


**Girls, I cannot stress this enough: if you aren't being treated right by a guy, don't wait for him to change.
Ditch his sorry, disgrace-to-the-male-population ass, and find someone who will treat you with utter respect.
Someone who will honor your morals.
Someone who will make you smile when you're at your lowest.

what is love?

LOVE ISN`t PERFECT It isn't a fairytale or a storybook. & it doesn't always come easy. Love is overcoming obstacles, facing challenges, fighting to be together, holding on & never letting go. It is a short word, easy to spell, difficult to define, & impossible to live without. Love is work, but most of all, Love is realizing that every hour, every minute, & every second was worth it because you did it together.

my problem

Do you want to know what my problem is? I will tell you what my problem is,

I LOVE YOU

I love your name, I love the way you look at me, I love your gorgeous smile, I love the way you walk, I love your beautiful eyes, I love what you look like when you are asleep, I love the sound of your laugh, to hear your voice fills my entire heart with an indescribable feeling. I love the way I can be having the worst day of my life and seeing you completely changes my mood. I love how when you touch me I get weak, that is my problem...

I love everything about you.

I love how you hold me. I love how you tell me I’m beautiful. I love how you look at me funny when I say something stupid. I love how you make me happy. I love how you smile when I see you. I love how you laugh when I say something random, or stupid. I love the face you make when I snort when I laugh. I love how you ask me if I’m alright when I cant stop laughing. I love how you make me feel. I love how you tell me I look cute. I love how you like my pajamas. I love how you talk about music for hours. I love how you say sweet things to me. I love how you whisper in my ear when it’s really quiet. I love how you squeeze me so hard when I hug you. I love how I can talk to you for hours about anything, and you listen, and I listen. I love how we call each other as soon as we wake up. I love how you sound when I wake you up. I love how my dog has more sex with you than I do, just kidding. I love how you want to spend every day with me. I love how you squeeze my hand. I love how you rub my back, and kiss my neck. I love how you lay next to me, and tell me that everything’s perfect. I love how everything is perfect. I love how you see the person I really am. I love how you say we are perfect for each other. I love how you make me cry, but not because I’m upset or sad, or you hurt me, but because you made me the happiest person ever. I love how I wake up in the morning for you. I love how I anticipate seeing you. I love how you kiss me. I love how I look at the empty space in my bed, and wish you were filling it. I love how I get nervous when I see you, but feel more comfortable with you than I do with anyone else. I love how my parents love you. I love how you deal with my picky eating habits. I love how you worry about me, and take care of me. I love how you pay for me when we go places. I love how you insist everything will be alright, and make me feel at ease. I love how you keep me warm when I’m cold. I love how you give me weird looks at awkward moments. I love how you stop everything for me. I love how I’m important to you. I love how I make you happy. I love how you make me happy. I love how you make sure I stay in line. I love how I only want to be with you. I love how I only think about you. I love how I stop everything because I get distracted and have to call you. I love how you get jealous. I love how you are when you are with your family. I love being with your family. I love how I can see myself with you forever. I love how we talk about being together forever. I love how you think I have cute feet. I love how you tickle me. I love how you get mad when someone says something to upset me. I love everything about you.

ayat jiwang

When I'm not there... do you think of me? When you're sad and something's bothering you... do you wish I were there to help comfort you? When you've had a long hard day... do you smile knowing that soon you'll be seeing me, and everything will seem better, even if it's just for a moment? When you lay down at night... do you look back and cherish the new memories you've made with me? And when you get up in the morning, does everything inside of you smile, knowing that this will be another day that we'll be together? because that's how I think of you...

change

When we say things like 'people' don't change, It drives scientists crazy..Because change is literally The only constant in all of
science. Energy...Matter...It's always changing... Morphing... Merging...
Growing... Dying. It's the way people try not to change that's unnatural... The way we cling to what things were Instead of letting them be what they are...The way we cling to old memories Instead of forming new ones... The way we insist on believing...Despite every scientific indication... That anything in this lifetime is permanent. Change is constant. How we experience change..That's up to us. It can feel like death... Or it can feel like a second chance at life. If we open our fingers, Loosen our grips, Go with it... It can feel like pure adrenaline... Like at any moment... We can have another chance at life... We canbe born all over again.

~ from
greys anatomy season7episod1

To love is to suffer

"To love is to suffer. To avoid suffering, one must not love; but then one suffers from not loving. Therefore, to love is to suffer, not to love is to suffer, to suffer is to suffer. To be happy is to love; to be happy then is to suffer, but suffering makes one unhappy; therefore to be unhappy one must love or love to suffer or suffer from too much happiness. I hope you're getting this down."

tak tahu nak bagi tajuk apa

Love is passion, obsession, someone you can't live without. If you don't start with that, what are you going to end up with? Fall head over heels. I say find someone you can love like crazy and who'll love you the same way back. And how do you find him? Forget your head and listen to your heart. I'm not hearing any heart. Run the risk, if you get hurt, you'll come back. Because, the truth is there is no sense living your life without this. To make the journey and not fall deeply in love - well, you haven't lived a life at all. You have to try. Because if you haven't tried, you haven't lived. ~ Meet Joe Black

POINTS ON HOW TO IMPROVE YOUR LIFE

Personality:

1. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.

2. Don't have negative thoughts of things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment

3. Don't over do; keep your limits

4. Don't take yourself so seriously; no one else does

5. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip

6. Dream more while you are awake

7. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need..

8. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner of his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.

9. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others.

10. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present

11. No one is in charge of your happiness except you

12. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.

13. Smile and laugh more

14. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.


Community:

15. Call your family often

16. Each day give something good to others

17. Forgive everyone for everything

18. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6

19. Try to make at least three people smile each day

20. What other people think of you is none of your business

21. Your job will not take care of you when you are sick. Your family and friends will. Stay in touch.



Life:

22. Put GOD first in anything and everything that you think, say and do.

23. GOD heals everything

24. Do the right things

25. However good or bad a situation is, it will change

26. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up

27. The best is yet to come

28. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful

29. When you awake alive in the morning, thank GOD for it

30. If you know GOD you will always be happy.

So, be happy.

Quote by Bob Marley

You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? She's not perfect - you aren't either, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break - her heart. So don't hurt her, don't change her, don't analyze and don't expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she's not there....

LIVE LIFE!

Take chances. Tell the truth. Date someone totally wrong for you. Say no. Spend all your cash! Fall in love. Get to know someone random. Be random. Say I love you. Sing out loud. Laugh at a stupid joke. Cry. Get revenge. Apologize. Tell someone how much they mean to you. Tell the asshole what you feel. Let someone know what theyre missing. Laugh til your stomach hurts. LIVE LIFE!

nasihat untuk perempuan

carilah lelaki yang mengatakan awak cantik daripada seksi, seseorang yang akan menelefon semula pabila awak putuskan panggilan, seseorang yang akan berbaring sambil mendengar degupan jantung awak, atau akan kekal berjaga hanya untuk melihat awak tidur....tunggulah seseorang yang selalu mencium dahimu, seseorang yang mahu menunjukkan awak kepada dunia biarpun awak berpeluh, sesorang yang akan memegang tangan awak walaupun dihadapan kawan-kawannya, seseorang yang sentiasa fikir awak tetap secantik tanpa solekan. seseorang yang selalu mengingatkan awak bagaimana dia sungguh mengambil berat tentang awak dan bagaimana dia merasakan dia sebagai jejaka paling bertuah kerana adanya awak........ seseorang yang berpusing kepada rakan-rakannya dan berkata, "itu dia...." :)

Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep... wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you' re just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have YOU... The one who turns to his friends and says, thats her...



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Mengapa wanita suka merajuk?

Mengapa wanita suka merajuk?
(Bagi soalan ini ditujukan kepada responden lelaki yang berada dalam kategori umur 25 – 47 tahun. Responden lelaki ini berada dalam kategori bujang dan yang sudah berumahtangga).

1. Wanita suka melihat sesuatu perkara remeh bagi lelaki itu sebagai perkara besar, contohnya soal pilih gerai makan. Wanita cerewet mengenai pemilihan gerai makan sehingga suka tarik muka jika gerai itu tidak berkenan di hati sedangkan lelaki anggap soal makan di mana saja boleh.

2. Wanita sensitif tidak tentu pasal kerana inginkan perhatian sedangkan lelaki banyak perkara penting yang mereka hendak fikir.

3. Wanita suka sangat diberikan perhatian dan manja tidak bertempat dan sikap ini menyebabkan mereka sentiasa ‘syok sendiri’ dan suka dipuji, jika tidak dipuji mereka akan merajuk.

4. Wanita terlalu perasan dan mudah menjeruk perasaan kerana sering mengharapkan lelaki memahami mereka sedangkan mereka tidak mahu memahami lelaki.

5. Lelaki tidak suka menunjukkan perasaan mereka melalui kata-kata, tetapi hanya memerhati dan bersikap tanggungjawab pada wanita. Wanita kena menerima hakikat itu.

6. Suka membeli-belah terlalu lama hingga membosankan lelaki, ini sebabnya lelaki malas dan tidak beri perhatian pada sikap wanita yang suka sangat menghabiskan masa untuk tujuan itu.

7. Terlalu banyak cakap mengenai diri orang lain dan mudah ke arah ‘mengata dan mengutuk’ jika dilayan kata-kata mereka, ini menyebabkan lelaki suka berdiam diri.

8. Lelaki lebih suka menyuarakan perasaan hati mereka melalui perbuatan dan bukan perkataan.

9. Lelaki suka berdiam diri dan tidak suka bising dan ini tidak bermakna mereka tidak prihatin kepada teman wanita atau anak dan isteri.

10. Lelaki tidak suka diperintah, dikongkong dan dikawal dan jika isteri atau teman wanita melakukan pengawalan itu pada lelaki, lelaki akan bosan dan tidak akan memberi perhatian kepada apa juga permintaan wanita.

11. Wanita kurang bijak dalam melahirkan kasih sayang melalui perbuatan menunjukkan kasih sayang pada pasangan, tetapi hanya mengharapkan pasangan memberi kasih sayang itu.

12. Jangan terlalu bergantung pada suami dan teman lelaki pada perkara yang mampu wanita lakukan, tetapi wanita suka bergantung harap sangat pada suami dengan tujuan agar suami sentiasa berada di samping mereka. Ini tidak digemari suami/teman lelaki.

13. Wanita mesti memahami diri mereka sendiri dan peranan mereka, dan ubahlah perangai mengikut peringkat umur dan keperluan. Jika masih muda elok juga jika merajuk, tetapi jika sudah mempunyai anak ramai dan berusia, janganlah selalu merajuk – buruk!

14. Wanita jadikan diri mereka contoh yang baik dan merajuk memburukkan persepsi lelaki, jadi janganlah bersikap seperti budak-budak kecil.

15. Wanita suka bertanya itu ini pada suami/teman lelaki tetapi tidak suka pada jawapan yang diberikan oleh suami/teman lelaki. Ini membuatkan suami/teman bosan untuk melayan soalan wanita itu.

16. Wanita banyak maksud dan tujuan dalam perbuatan mereka, jika dilayan, mereka kadangkala mengambil kesempatan daripada keprihatinan yang diberikan kepada mereka.

17. Wanita jangan suka menunjuk-nunjuk kecantikan, kepandaian dan kekayaan mereka dan sebagainya dan inginkan dilayan ala ‘puteri’ kerana kelebihan itu hingga membodohkan lelaki. Lelaki tidak ada minat untuk melayan kerenah wanita seperti itu.

no. 18 plak..


ppuan ni klu kita tegur dia utk kebaikan bersama, dia plak slh anggap dan mula cari mcm salah lelaki wlaupun xde kna mengena pun dgn apa yg kita tegur.....

do you hate love?

Adakah anda pernah jatuh cinta? terukkan? ia membuatkan anda begitu 'mudah pecah'. Ia membuka dada dan hati anda dan itu bermakna bahawa seseorang boleh memasuki ke dalam diri anda dan membuatkan anda asyik terfikir tentang dia.

Anda membina benteng, siap pakai baju besi, jadi tiada siapa yang dapat menyakiti hati anda. tiba-tiba ada seorang mana ntah yang bodoh, tidak berbeza daripada orang bodoh lain, mengembara ke dalam hidup bodoh anda ... dan anda memberi mereka sedikit diri anda .  

bukannya mereka minta pun.  

suatu hari mereka buat sesuatu yang bodoh, seperti senyum pada anda. 

selepas itu hidup anda bukan hidup anda lagi. anda jadi gila.................makan tak lena, tidur tak basah, mandi tak kenyang.

Cinta memerlukan tebusan. Ia masuk ke dalam diri anda.mulai memakan anda dan anda mulai menangis keseorangan. oh sakitnya rasa. bukan sekadar imaginasi. bukan sekadar hanya pada fikiran. ianya dalam jiwa, betul betul- dalam dalam- dan -sikit sikit- sampai sakit. dan tiba-tiba apa yang anda tahu mata anda bergelinangan. setitis demi setitis. argh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Intimacy

"I wish there were a rulebook for intimacy. Some kind of guide to tell you when you've crossed the line. It would be nice if you could see it coming, and I don't know how you fit it on a map. You take it where you can get it, and keep it as long as you can. As for rules, maybe there are none. Maybe the rules of intimacy are something we have to define for ourselves."

"Intimacy is a four syllable word for: Here is my heart and soul, please grind into hamburger, and enjoy. It's both desired, and feared. Difficult to live with, and impossible to live without. Intimacy also comes attached to the three R's... relatives, romance, and roommates. There are some things you can't escape. And other things you just don't want to know."

why am i here

"I can't think of a single reason why I should be in Top Host 2010, but I can think of a thousand reasons why I should quit. They make it hard on purpose.  There comes a moment when it's more than just a game, and you either take that step forward or turn around and walk away. I could quit, but here's the thing. I love the playing field."

"We live our lives in the workstation. 6 to 7 days a week, 14 hours a day, we're together more than we're apart. After a while, the ways of Ally Iskandar becomes the ways of life. Number one: Always keep score. Number two: Do whatever you can to outsmart the others. Number three: Don't make friends with the enemy. Oh, yeah, Number four: Everything, everything is a competition. Whoever said winning wasn't everything... Never been in the board room"

"At some point, you have to make a decision. Boundaries don't keep other people out, they fence you in. Life is messy, that's how we're made. So you can waste your life drawing lines or you can live your life crossing them. But there are some lines that are way too dangerous to cross. Here's what I know. If you're willing to throw caution to the wind and take a chance, the view from the other side... is spectacular."

Bersyukur

Bersyukur, menghargai dan berterima kasih.

Tidak kira apa sahaja perkataan yang anda gunakan ianya memberikan maksud yang sama.

Bahagia.

Kita seharusnya bahagia.

Bersyukur kerana adanya kawan-kawan dan keluarga.

Bahagia kerana dapat hidup.

Samada kita suka atau tidak.

Mungkin kita tidak sepatutnya merasa bahagia.

Mungkin rasa bersyukur tidak ada kaitan langsung dengan kegembiraan.

Mungkin merasa bersyukur ialah menyedari apa yang anda ada dan apa yang anda miliki sekarang ini.

Menghargai kemenangan-kemenangan yang kecil yang kita pernah kecapi.

Mengagumi perjuangan yang diperlukan hanya untuk menjadi seorang manusia.

Mungkin kita bersyukur untuk hal-hal yang biasa kita ketahui.

Dan mungkin kita bersyukur untuk perkara-perkara yang tidak akan kita ketahui.

Dan akhirnya, mengetahui bahawa kita memiliki keberanian untuk tetap teguh berdiri ... adalah alasan yang cukup untuk meraikannya.

Tentang cinta

Jangan sesekali terfikir bahawa akan berjumpa dengan seseorang yang lebih baik selepas ini, kerana apa yang anda sedang miliki sekarang sudah yang terbaik.


Jangan sesekali terfikir bahawa anda masih terlalu muda dan oleh sebab itu anda sepatutnya berkahwin ketika anda sudah dewasa, tapi cinta tak boleh menunggu.

Jangan pernah menyerah pada cinta hanya kerana jarak yang jauh, karena cinta adalah lebih hebat sekiranya anda boleh menahan perjalanannya.

Jangan pernah menyerah kalah hanya kerana dia tidak berada, kerana selama dia mampu, ketekunan akhirnya akan membawa keuntungan.

Jangan menyerah kalah hanya kerana orang tua menghalang, anda akhirnya akan menyedari bahawa menyerah cinta yang suci seperti itu akan menyebabkan kamu menyesal seumur hidup.

Hakikatnya, bila bercakap tentang cinta, lebih mudah sesuatu itu, lagi senanglah sepatutnya.

Cara yang terbaik adalah kalau kita hanya perlu jatuh cinta untuk sekali sahaja. Kerana jika kita mengalaminya terlalu banyak, kita mungkin tidak akan merasa apa-apa lagi. Kerana semakin kerap kita putus cinta, kita akan mulai terbiasa dan jika kita terlalu sering menukar cinta kita, kita akan mula membandingkan mereka.

Dan akhirnya kita tidak akan lagi percaya pada cinta, kita akan putus asa, dan kita akan berakhir dengan kesepian dan menjadi mayat hidup yang berjalan.

Anda akan menikahi seseorang yang anda tidak cintai dan begitulah sisa hidup anda.

Oleh kerana itu, jika anda sudah memegang tangan seseorang, jangan menyerah kalah begitu saja, jangan suka-suka menarik kembali janji-janji yang telah anda taburkan dan selalulah mengingat kembali komitmen anda sebelum ini.

kerana sesetengah orang dan sesetengah kisah, sekali ianya berlaku ianya menjadi kenangan untuk seumur hidup.

kawan atau lebih dari kawan

Di dalam hati setiap perempuan, pasti ada seorang lelaki yang bukan kekasih mereka, tapi ada dalam hati mereka.

Mereka mungkin pernah dicintai, atau mereka mungkin saling menyukai antara satu sama lain.

Tapi mengapa mereka tidak bersama?...

Mungkin,

ianya kerana kawan-kawan maka dia tidak mengejar anda,

atau mungkin kerana keluarganya, anda berdua tidak dapat bersama

atau mungkin dia hanya memberi perhatian terhadap masa depannya menyebabkan dia tidak mahu menunggu anda....

atau

Mungkin anda mengenali antara satu sama lain terlalu awal

kerana itu anda tidak tahu bagaimana untuk menghargai satu sama lain,

atau

Mungkin anda terlambat mengenali antara satu sama lain

dimana anda telah pun mempunyai orang lain,

Atau mungkin anda lambat menyedari tentang perkara ini

bila dia sudah tidak lagi menunggu anda,

Atau mungkin anda terlalu sibuk meneka apa yang ada dalam hatinya

sehingga anda langsung tidak melakukan apa-apa pun,

Tapi, walaupun anda berdua tidak dapat bersama

Anda masih berkawan,

Tapi anda tahu dengan jelas di dalam lubuk hati anda itu bahawa untuk orang ini, anda akan menjaga dia sedikit lebih berbanding kawan yang lain,

Walaupun anda tidak boleh memegang tangannya dan pergi membeli-belah seperti pasangan kekasih yang lain,

Namun anda adalah kawan yang boleh bercakap tentang apa-apa sekalipun,

Ketika dia mempunyai seseorang yang dia puja, anda pasti akan cuba tolong dia untuk mendapatkannya,

namun anda sendiri tidak pasti samada anda akan mengharapkan yang dia akan berjaya,

Ketika dia berada dalam kesusahan

Anda akan cuba sedaya upaya untuk membantunya

bahkan tidak pernah memikirkan tentang balasan,

Ketika kekasih anda cemburu pada anda,
Anda akan memberitahu kekasih anda bahawa dia hanyalah kawan sahaja,

Tetapi jauh di dalam lubuk hati, anda sendiri tidak pasti adakah ini benar.

Dalam hidup setiap orang

mesti ada seorang teman yang teristimewa seperti ini,

seseorang yang menyebabkan anda menjadi sungguh keliru.

Pada awalnya, anda mungkin tidak mahu hanya menjadi "sekadar kawan",

Tapi seiring berjalannya waktu, anda mula menyedari bahawa ini adalah jalan yang terbaik untuk kedua-duanya,

Anda lebih rela mengambil berat tentang dirinya dengan cara ini

daripada bersama-sama dan kemudian putus di suatu hari,

Anda lebih rela untuk menjadi kawannya,

supaya anda tidak akan cemburu antara satu sama lain

dan oleh kerana itu anda boleh bercakap tentang apa sahaja,

Terutamanya dengan cara ini,

Anda sememangnya tahu

bahawa dia akan selamanya mengambil berat tentang diri anda.
walaupun anda tidak boleh menjadi pasangan kekasih,

bukan memudaratkan pun walau hanya sekadar menjadi teman biasa?

Adakah ini mengingatkan anda tentang seseorang yang ada di hati anda sekarang?

Siapakah orang itu?

Ada seringkali mempunyai banyak hubungan yang tidak sesuai

dan akhirnya berkahir dengan tidak menjadi kawan lagi

Anda mungkin pernah merasakan bahwa lebih baik kalau hanya berkawan

Tapi akhirnya, hanya kerana sebuah kalimat seperti "saya suka awak"

dan jika dia tidak memberi respon yang sama,

ianya mungkin meletakkan persahabatan anda dalam risiko,

dan kerana itu barulah anda faham sangat-sangat,

kenapa ada orang tidak akan berani mengambil langkah itu,

Kerana ia benar-benar seperti berjudi,

setelah anda menyatakan cinta,

anda mungkin boleh menjadi pasangan kekasih,

atau anda tidak lagi boleh berkawan

Kerana ada perkara-perkara tertentu yang anda tidak dapat jangkakan,

mungkin jika dia tidak keberatan,

Anda masih boleh berkawan,

tetapi ada perkara-perkara tertentu,

  tidak akan sama lagi seperti dahulu.

 

Inside every girls' heart, there is always a boy who is not their boyfriend

They may be once loved, or they may have like one another

But why aren't they together?....

Perhaps, it was because some other friends hence he/she did not pursue you

or perhaps because of his/hers family, both of you did not be together

or maybe she was just being considerate towards her own future that she did not waited for you....

Perhaps you just got to know each other too early

therefore you did not know how to treasure one another,

Maybe you just got to know one another too late

where you have already got someone with you,

Or maybe you just got to realize it too late

when he/she is no longer waiting for you

Or perhaps you were too busy guessing what was in his/her heart

and you did not make any move after all,

But, even if both of you did not get together

You are still friends,

But you know it clearly at the bottom of your heart that

for this person, you would simple care just a little more than any friend

Although you could not hold his/her hand and go shopping just like any boyfriend/girlfriend did

But you are friends that can chat almost about anything

When she has someone she adores, you will try helping her to pursue him

yet you were not too sure if you would ever wish that she would success

When she is in trouble

You will try your very best to help her

and never even think of reciprocation

When your boyfriend/girlfriend is jealous

you will just tell your boyfriend/girlfriend that they are just a friend

But deep down your heart, you weren't even sure if that is true

In everyone's life

there must be a special friend like this

someone that causes you such confusion

At first, you might not like to be "just friends"

But as time goes by, you will soon realize that this is the best for both,

You would rather care for him/her this way

than to be together and broke it off someday,

You would prefer to be his/her friend

so that you will not get jealous about each other and hence you could talk about almost everything

Especially in this way,

you will know that

she will forever care for you

even when we could not be made a couple,

what harm does it brings even being a special friend of hers?

Does this remind you of someone that is in your heart now? Who that is?

There are often too many relationships that

does not correspond

and only ended up not being friends anymore

You may always feel that it could have been better friendship instead

But eventually, just because of a simple sentence such as "I like you"

and if you did not correspond in the same way, it may put your friendship at risk

and hence it is completely comprehensible that why some people will never take such a step

Because it is really like a gamble,

after you had confess your love, you could either be a couple

or you could no longer be friend

Because there are things that we are not able to predict, perhaps if he/she does not mind,

you could still be friend, but there are certain things that is no longer the same as before