04 Disember 2012

is this is me? or is this is me?

If you’re standing on your balcony on a clear, cool night, waiting for your Virgo prince to climb up the ivy, take your hand and kiss you under the moonlit skies, then you’ll probably die of frostbite waiting for him. And even then, he won’t come. The Virgo man has no room in his world for fairy-tale romance. He’s a by-the-numbers guy, who likes everything to be practical, direct and material. Don’t expect him to propose to you with a long, sweet poem, or promise to sweep up all the stars in the sky and lay them at your feet. “You’re so silly,” he’ll tell you, “You know it’s impossible to sweep up stars!” That’s not to say that he can’t be romantic, but his definition of it is different from yours. He will enjoy the real, visceral things in life, and consider it romantic when you share them together. He’ll like taking you to a baseball game, or else to a really exclusive record store, so you can bond over your love for music. His approach to everything in life is slow and measured, and so he won’t rush into anything, especially not marriage. He might be standing next to you on a bus (Virgo men are too practical to take their cars out all the time, especially with the gas prices being the way they are), be staring thoughtfully out the window, and then turn to you and say, “hey, we should get married. This way we can go on our honeymoon in the off-season, when ticket prices are low.” You’ll stand there dumb-founded that he proposed to you as casually as saying, “I think I want to get a Honda,” or even more casual than that, because he would never rush into buying a new car like that. But if you’re in love with him, and want to marry him, then don’t be offended and get used to it. The fact is that because he puts a lot of detailed thought into his decisions, it means he is ready to marry you, and is convinced he can be committed to you. He doesn’t do anything flimsily, without conviction, so he’ll definitely be a loyal husband to you.As a husband, he’s the symbol of a provider. He’ll be obsessed with accumulating wealth, and will be very careful with spending. He’ll find every financial loophole out there so that your savings account grows steadily. He’ll be gentle and reliable, though can be prone to snapping at you for trivial things like dropped plates, spilled sauce or lost keys. He’s a perfectionist at heart, though perhaps not in practice (but don’t you point that out to him), and expects a high standard of everyone. Emotion and passion do not break through his defenses, so don’t bother trying. Even the most lustful Virgo man is relatively aloof when it comes to sex, and it’s because he’s the symbol of temperance and moderation. He might appear insensitive when you come to him with an emotional problem, and it’s not because he doesn’t care, but because he doesn’t know how to handle it. He understands logic and rationale, not feelings and emotions.Fatherhood won’t appeal to him, because he lacks the imagination or sensitivity to enjoy children. But once he’s a father, he’ll watch over them protectively, and treat them the way he would a low-risk financial investment (which says a lot) and ensure they have a stable home. For all that he lacks as a romantic, passionate partner, he’ll make up for with his stability and composure. He’ll give you a good home, a good life and be a tower of support for when you need it. But first, get off that balcony before you freeze to death! He’s not coming to your balcony, lady!

03 Jun 2012

let thing go and move on

It's one of those things people say..
you can't move on
until you've let go of the past.
Letting go is the easy part.
It's the moving on that's painful.
So sometimes we fight it...
Try and keep things the same.
Things can't stay the same, though.
At some point, you just have to let go...
Move on...
Because no matter how painful it is...
It's the only way we grow.

25 Februari 2012

A REAL BOYFRIEND Don't care if you have a boyfriend or girlfriend right now. I don't care if you are a guy or a woman or Michael Jackson. Just read this, it will make a difference. If only everyone could see this and understand it. When she stares at your mouth Kiss her When she pushes you or hits you like a dummy cause she thinks shes stronger than you Grab her and don't let go When she starts cursing at you trying to act all tough Kiss her and tell her you love her When she's quiet Ask her whats wrong When she ignores you Give her your attention When she pulls away Pull her back When you see her at her worst Tell her she's beautiful When you see her start crying Just hold her and don't say a word When you see her walking Sneak up and hug her waist from behind When she's scared Protect her When she steals your favorite hoodie Let her keep it and sleep with it for a night When she teases you Tease her back and make her laugh When she doesn't answer for a long time reassure her that everything is okay When she looks at you with doubt Back yourself up When she says that she loves you she really does more than you can understand When she grabs at your hands Hold her's and play with her fingers When she bumps into you; bump into her back and make her laugh When she tells you a secret keep it safe and untold When she looks at you in your eyes dont look away until she does When she says it's over she still wants you to be hers When she reposts this bulletin she wants you to read it - Stay on the phone with her even if she's not saying anything - When she's mad hug her tight and don't let go - When she says she's ok don't believe it, talk with her because 10 yrs later she'll remember you - Call her at 12:00am on her birthday to tell her you love her -Treat her like she's all that matters to you - Stay up all night with her when she's sick - Watch her favorite movie with her or her favorite show even if you think it's stupid - Give her the world. - Let her wear your clothes -When she's bored and sad, hang out with her -Let her know she's important. - Don't talk about other girls around her - Kiss her in the pouring rain - When she runs up to you crying, the first thing you say is: "Whose ass am i kicking baby?"