06 Ogos 2011

Gareth Gates - unchained melody


Whoa! My love, my darling,
I hunger for your touch,
Alone. Lonely time.
And time goes by, so slowly,
And time can do so much,
Are you still mine?
I need your love.
I need your love.
God speed your love to me.

Lonely rivers flow to the sea, to the sea,
To the open arms of the sea.
Lonely rivers sigh, wait for me, wait for me,
I'll be coming home, wait for me.

Whoa! My love, my darling,
I hunger for your touch,
Alone. Lonely time.
And time goes by, so slowly,
And time can do so much,
Are you still mine?
I need your love.
I need your love.
God speed your love to me.

‎'if someone seriously wants to be a part of your life,they will seriously make an effort to be in it. No reasons.No excuses.'

"When this is said and done, I really hope you look back and wonder if maybe falling in love with me wasn't such a bad idea."

26 Jun 2011

You can’t force yourself to stop liking someone, but you can tell yourself that you deserve better and try to move on.

"Here's the thing about having a relationship: you can never look for it. It's like when you lose your keys, if you look for them, you'll never find them. You just have to wait for them to pop up under the couch or something. So I'm playing it as patient as I can. I'm not going to rush into having a relationship just because I'm lonely sometimes. I'm waiting for the right person."

People who belong together, stay together despite major setbacks & disagreements. They may deal in fault & blame temporarily, but ultimately they work things out. Love conquers all; in sickness & in health.

"It takes two to tango, but one to let go." - The Wallflowers

"The word 'busy' is the relationship Weapon of Mass Destruction. It seems like a good excuse, but in fact, in every silo you uncover, all you're going to find is a man who didn't care enough to call. Remember: men are never too busy to get what they want."

17 Mei 2011

Most women reinforce a man's negative behavior thinking it's a part of love. Pain isn't love! You teach a person how to treat you by what you ignore, what you stop, and what you reinforce.

LADIES: When men don't get space, they usually take it and when that happens, there's usually a woman being neglected. Don't let that woman be you! Smothering your man ain't gone do nothing but push him away... Its a known fact that even a fire needs air.

The keeper of your heart is the most important position you will ever fill. Sort thru your applications carefully...

Jumping from relationship to relationship with out healing is like putting perfume over funk. Heal first...love later.

Anger toward an ex will transition to anger toward the next...forgiving isn't just for them, it's for you

Each failed relationship is a stepping stone to a successful one. Be patient, move forward...it gets better

You can't make the same mistake twice, the second time around it's no longer a mistake...it's a choice

14 Mei 2011

First love's all right as far as it goes. Last love, that's what I'm interested in.

Does your name begin with..

Does your name begin with: A
U are not particularly romantic, but you are interested in action. You mean business. With you, what you see is what you get. You have no patience for flirting and can't be bothered with someone who is trying to be coy, cute, demure, and subtly enticing. You are an up-front person. You often don't get hints & you ever pass any. Brains turn you on. You must feel that your partner is! intellectually stimulating, otherwise you will find it difficult to sustain the relationship. You require loving, cuddling, wining, and dining to know that you're being appreciated. Your mate's physical attractiveness is important for you. You tend to be very Practical, & not very emotional Your choices are very good & can only lead to trouble. You are very self satisfied & egoistic. 

Does your name begin with: B
You give off vibes of lazy sensuality. You enjoy being romanced, wined, and dined. You are very happy to receive gifts as an expression of the affection of your lover. You want to be pampered and know how to pamper your mate. You are private in your expression of endearments, and particular when it comes to love. You will hold off until everything meets with your approval. You can control your appetite & feelings. You require new sensations and experiences. You are willing to experiment. 

Does your name begin with: C
You are a very social individual, and it is important to you to have a relationship. You require closeness and togetherness . You want the object of your affection to be socially acceptable and good-looking. You see your lover as a friend and companion. You are very sensual, Needing someone to appreciate and almost worship you. When this cannot be achieved, you have the ability to hold out on affection until you receive this.. You are an expert at controlling your desires and doing without.

Does your name begin with: D
Once you get it into your head that you want someone, you move full Steam ahead in your suit. You do not give up your quest easily. You are nurturing and caring. If someone has a problem, this turns you on . You are highly passionate, loyal, and intense in your involvement's, sometimes possessive and jealous. You are very sharp & talented often with sense of humour. When people bother to look deep inside they cannot resist what they see. You are stimulated by the eccentric and unusual, having a free and open attitude. You get jealous of other people and lose your temper . 

Does your name begin with: E
Your greatest need is to talk . If your date is not a good listener, you have trouble relating. A person must be intellectually stimulating or you are not interested sexually. You need a friend for a lover and a companion You hate disharmony and disruption, but you do enjoy a good argument once in a while-it seems to stir things up. You flirt a lot, for the challenge is more important. But once you give your heart away, you are uncompromisingly loyal. You will fall asleep with a good book. sometimes, in fact, you prefer a good book to a lover

Does your name begin with: F
You are idealistic and romantic, putting your lover on a pedestal. You look for the very best mate you can find . You are a flirt, yet once committed, you are very loyal. You are sensuous and privately passionate. Publicly, you can be showy, extravagant, and gallant. You are a born romantic. Dramatic love scenes are a favourite fantasy past time. You can be a very generous lover. 


Does your name begin with: G
You are fastidious, seeking perfection within yourself and your lover. You respond to a lover who is your intellectual equal or superior, and one who can enhance your status. You are sensuous and know how to reach the peak of stimulation, because you work at it meticulously. You can be extremely active-never tiring out. Your duties and responsibilities take precedence over everything else. You may have difficulty getting emotionally close to people. 


Does your name begin with: H
You seek a mate who can enhance your zest for life , fun & everything You seek for. You will be very generous to your lover once you have Attained a commitment. You are very affectionate & very strong. Your gifts are actually an investment in your partner. Before the commitment, though, you tend to be very careful with your every move and equally cautious in your involvement's often as you believe that you have to look out for yourself. You are a sensual and patient lover. You will hold off till everything meets your full approval. You are a perfectionist , hard to satisfy and strong in your beliefs. Not influential, you always stand your ground. People can always count on you to stand by them in a crisis. You are a dreamer with/ a passion for life. 

Does your name begin with: I
You have a great need to be loved, appreciated... even worshiped . You enjoy luxury, sensuality, and pleasures of the flesh. You like necking spend hours just touching feeling & exploring. You look for lovers who know what they are doing. You are not interested in an amateur, unless that amateur wants a tutor. You are fussy and exacting about having your desires satisfied. You are willing to experiment and try new modes of  expression . You bore easily and thus require adventure and change. Your commitments don't last very long & you often tend to stray. Loyalty is not one of your strong points. You are more sensual than sexual, but you are sometimes downright lustful.

Does your name begin with: J
You are blessed with a great deal of physical energy. When used for a good cause there is nothing to stop you, except maybe that they aren't always used for the good. (you could dance all night.) You respond to the thrill of the chase and the challenge of the mating game.You can carry on great romances in your head. At heart you are a roamer and need to set out on your own every so often. You will carry on long- distance relationships with ease. You are idealistic and need to believe in love. You have a need to be nurtured deep within.

Does your name begin with: K
You are secretive , self-contained, and shy. You are very sexy, sensual, and passionate, but you do not let on to this. Only in intimate privacy will this part of your nature reveal itself. When it gets down to the nitty-gritty, you are an expert. You know all the little tricks of the trade, can play any role or any game , and take your love life very seriously. You don't fool around. You have the patience to wait for the right person to come along. You are very generous & giving, often selfless. You are kind-natured & sweet, which is found to be attractive by many. You are a good friend.

Does your name begin with: L
You can be very romantic, attached to the glamour of love. Having a partner is of paramount importance to you. You are free in your  expression of love and are willing to take chances, try new sexual experiences and partners, provided it's all in good taste. Brains turn you on . You must feel that your partner is intellectually stimulating, otherwise you will find it difficult to sustain the relationship. You require loving, cuddling, wining, and dining to know that you're being appreciated. "You require loving, cuddling, wining, and dining to know that you're being appreciated ".

Does your name begin with: M
You may appear innocent, unassuming and shy; but we know that Appearances can lie. When it comes to sex, you are no novice but something of a skilled technician. You can easily go to extremes, though, running the gamut from insatiability to boredom with the whole idea of love. You can be highly critical of you mate, seeking perfection in both of you. It is not easy to find someone who can meet your standards. You have difficulty expressing emotions and drawing close to lovers. You are often selfish, thinking you are always right no matter what. You never give in. Winning is your prime desire- at any cost. You often forget friends and family and you live for the moment. 

Does your name begin with: N
You are emotional and intense . When involved in a relationship, you Throw your entire being into it. Nothing stops you; there are no holds barred. You are all-consuming and crave someone who is equally passionate and intense. You believe in total freedom . You are willing to try anything and everything. Your supply of energy is inexhaustible. You want to be pampered and know how to pamper your mate. You also enjoy mothering your mate. You often have the greatest love affairs all by yourself, in your head. You are very imaginative.

Does your name begin with: O
You are very interested in fun activities yet secretive and shy about your desires. You can re-channel much of your energy into making money and/or seeking we. You can easily have extended periods of celibacy. You are a passionate, compassionate lover, requiring the same qualities From your mate. Love is serious business; thus you demand intensity, diversity and is willing to try anything or anyone. Sometimes your passions turn to possessiveness , which must be kept in check.

Does your name begin with: P
You are very conscious of social proprieties. You wouldn't think of Doing anything that might harm your image or Reputation. Appearances count . Therefore, you require a good-looking partner. You also require an intelligent partner. Oddly enough, you may view your partner as your enemy...a good fight stimulates those vibes . You are relatively free of hang- ups.You are willing to experiment and try new ways of doing things.You are very social and sensual; you enjoy flirting and need a good deal of physical gratification.

Does your name begin with: Q
You require constant activity and stimulation. You have tremendous physical energy . It is not easy for a partner to keep up with you. You are an enthusiastic lover and tend to be attracted to people because of their ethnic groups. You need romance, hearts and flowers, and conversation to turn you on and keep you going.

Does your name begin with: R
You are a no-nonsense, action-oriented individual . You need someone who can keep pace with you and who is your intellectual equal-the smarter the better. You are turned on more quickly by a great mind than by a great body. However, physical attractiveness is not very important to you. You have to be proved to be worthy for a partner. You have a need to prove yourself the best . You want feedback on your performance. You are open, stimulating & romantic.

Does your name begin with: S
For you, it is pleasure before business. You can be romantically idealistic to a fault and is capable of much sensuality. But you never loose control of your emotions. Once you make the commitment you stick like glue . You could get jealous and possessive. You tend to be very selfish often regarding yourself as the only human being on the planet.. You like being the centre of attention. You are very caring sensitive, private & sometimes very passive. Turned on by soft lights, romantic thoughts. When it gets down to the nitty-gritty, you are an expert . You know all the little tricks of the trade, can play any role, or any game, and take your love life very seriously. You don't fool around. You have the patience to wait for the rightperson to come along. You are very generous & giving, often selfless. You are kind nature & sweet which is found to be attractive by many. You are a good friend.

Does your name begin with: T
You are very sensitive, private & sometimes very passive. You like someone who takes the lead. You get turned on by music , soft lights & romantic thoughts. You fantasize & tend to fall in & out of love soon. When in love you are romantic, idealistic, mushy & extremely. You enjoy having your senses & your feelings stimulated, titillated & teased. You are a great flirt . You can make your relationships fit your dreams, all in your own head. Once you put your mind to something you manage to stand by it and see your dreams through. You aren't very good at expressing your feelings. You like things your own way. You do not like change, you like to hold on to things. This may not always be good because if given an opportunity things may develop into great things. You work your way to the top. Attention must be given to what others say because even though you don't want to hear it their advice may turn out to save your life. !

Does your name begin with: U
You are enthusiastic & at your happiest when in love . When not in love you're in love with love and always looking for someone to adore. You see romance as challenge. You are a roamer & needs adventure, excitement freedom. You enjoy giving gifts & looking good. You are willing to put others feelings above yours. 

Does your name begin with: V
You are individualistic & you need freedom, space & excitement. You wait till you know someone well before committing yourself. Knowing someone means psyching her/him out. You feel a need to get into his/her head to see what makes him tick. You are attracted to eccentric types. You believe that age is no barrier. You are good at responding to danger, fear & suspense. 

Does your name begin with: W
You are very proud , determined & refuses to take no for an answer when it come to love. Your ego is at stake all the time. You are romantic, idealistic, often in love with love itself, not seeing your partner for who she or he really is. You feel deeply about love & tends to throw all of your self into a relationship. Nothing is too good for your lover. You like playing love games. 

Does your name begin with: X
You need constant stimulation because you get bored quickly . You can handle more than 1 relationship at a time with ease. You can't shut off your mind. You can do 2 things at once. You are very talented. 

Does your name begin with: Y
You are sensual & very independent. If you can't have it your way, you will forget the whole thing . You want to control your relationships which doesn't work out too well. You respond to physical stimulation. However if you can make money you will give up the pleasures of the flesh for the moment. You have a need to prove yourself the best. You want feedback on your performance. You are open, stimulating & romantic.

Does your name begin with: Z
You are very romantic but show feels that to love means to suffer . You wind up serving your mate & attracting people who have unusual trouble. You see yourself as a lover's saviour. 

03 Mei 2011

life isn't about keeping score. it's not about how many people call you and it's not about who you've dated, are dating, or haven't dated at all. it isn't about who you've kissed, what sport you play, or which guy or girl likes you. it's not about your shoes or your hair or the color of your skin or where you live or go to school. in fact, it's not about grades, money, clothes, or colleges that accept you or not. life isn't about if you have lots of friends, or if you are alone, and it's not about how accepted or unaccepted you are. life just isn't about that. But life is about who you love and who you hurt. it's about how you feel about yourself. it's about trust, happiness, and compassion. life is about avoiding jealousy, overcoming ignorance, and building confidence. it's about what you say and what you mean. it's about seeing people for who they are and not what they have. most of all, it is about choosing to use your life to touch someone else's in a way that could never have been achieved otherwise. these choices are what life's about.

I love you as you are, as you seek to find your own special way to relate to the world, or the way you feel that is right for you. It is important that you are the person you want to be and not someone that I or others think you should be

Love has nothing to do with the five senses & the six directions: its goal is only to experience the attraction exerted by the Beloved

26 April 2011

Tak kupinta malapetaka Yang jatuh menimpa dan menguji cinta kita
Namun daku tak sanggup lihat mu Mengorban hidupmu semata-mata untukku

Wahai sayang Kau sepatutnya dicinta jejaka yang lebih sempurna

Jangan pula dikau salah sangka Ku mungkiri janji ku tak mencintai lagi
Tapi kini izin ku undur diri Kerana ku tak mampu untuk membahagiakanmu

Memang sayang untukku melepaskanmu
Biarku tanggung deritaku

Pergilah sayang
Dirimu kan tetap daku kenang
Setiap malam berlinang airmataku Jadi perangsang
merindu mu sayang

Dakaplah daku untuk kali terakhir
Oh kasihku
Berikanku peluang ku menatapi wajahmu
Agar abadi di ingatanku

23 April 2011

“How does one become a butterfly?" she asked. "You must want to fly so much that you are willing to give up being a caterpillar.”

Andy Williams - Can't Take My Eyes Off You (Singing, Live! Year 1967)



You're just too good to be true
Can't take my eyes off of you
You'd be like heaven to touch
I wanna hold you so much
At long last love has arrived
And I thank God I'm alive
You're just too good to be true
Can't take my eyes off of you

Pardon the way that I stare
There's nothing else to compare
The sight of you leaves me weak
There are no words left to speak
But if you feel like I feel
Please let me know that it's real
You're just too good to be true
Can't take my eyes off of you

I love you baby
And if it's quite alright
I need you baby
To warm the lonely night
I love you baby
Trust in me when I say...
Oh pretty baby
Don't bring me down I pray
Oh pretty baby
Now that I've found you stay
And let me love you baby, let me love you

You're just too good to be true
Can't take my eyes off of you
You'd be like heaven to touch
I wanna hold you so much
At long last love has arrived
And I thank God I'm alive
You're just too good to be true
Can't take my eyes off of you

I love you baby
And if it's quite alright
I need you baby
To warm the lonely night
I love you baby
Trust in me when I say...
Oh pretty baby
Don't bring me down I pray
Oh pretty baby
Now that I've found you stay
And let me love you, baby let me love you

31 Mac 2011

Christina Perri - Jar of Hearts



I know I can't take one more step towards you
Cause all that's waiting is regret
And don't you know I'm not your ghost anymore
You lost the love I loved the most

I learned to live half alive
And now you want me one more time

And who do you think you are
Running 'round leaving scars
Collecting your jar of hearts
And tearing love apart
You're gonna catch a cold
From the ice inside your soul
So don't come back for me
Who do you think you are

I hear you're asking all around
If I am anywhere to be found
But I have grown too strong
To ever fall back in your arms

And I've learned to live half alive
And now you want me one more time
And who do you think you are
Running 'round leaving scars
Collecting your jar of hearts
And tearing love apart
You're gonna catch a cold
From the ice inside your soul
So don't come back for me
Who do you think you are

Dear, it took so long just to feel alright
Remember how to put back the light in my eyes
I wish I had missed the first time that we kissed
Cause you broke all your promises
And now you're back
You don't get to get me back

And who do you think you are
Running 'round leaving scars
Collecting your jar of hearts
And tearing love apart
You're gonna catch a cold
From the ice inside your soul
So don't come back for me
Don't come back at all

And who do you think you are
Running 'round leaving scars
Collecting your jar of hearts
And tearing love apart
You're gonna catch a cold
From the ice inside your soul
Don't come back for me
Don't come back at all
Who do you think you are?
Who do you think you are?
Who do you think you are?

"A bell's not a bell 'til you ring it - A song's not a song 'til you sing it - Love in your heart wasn't put there to stay - Love isn't love 'til you give it away!" - Oscar Hammerstein (1895-1960) American Song Writer

13 Mac 2011

so in love with this song :)


Anuar Zain - The Memories Remain



i can see the sadness in your eyes
and every teardrop that you cry
i hope you know
it's hard to let you go

the time is here i have to say goodbye
i laid my life i've seen the light
i hope you know
it's hard to let you go

i swear to be the shadow by your side
to be the shining star
to light the darkness of your night
i will survive

*in the end
as i cross the line of life and then
i find my way back in your heart again
and i promise i will stay
forever and a day
the memories remain

i wanna be the pillar of your strength
to give you hope until the end
no matter where i will be there
as long as you will let me stay
i'll be with you through night and day
no matter when and where i will be there

i swear to be the shadow by your side
to be the shining star
to light the darkness of your night
you will survive
keep me alive

repeat * 2x

23 Februari 2011

Sometimes you walk past a pretty girl on the street and there's something beyond beauty in her face, something warm and smart and sensual and inviting, and in the three seconds you have to look at her, you actually fall in love, and in those moments, you can actually know the taste of her kiss, the feel of her skin against yours, the sound of her laugh, how she'll look at you and make you whole. And then she's gone, and in the five seconds afterwards, you mourn her loss with more sadness than you'll ever admit to.

There comes a point where you just love someone. Not because they're good, or bad, or anything really. You just love them. It doesn't mean you'll be together forever. It doesn't mean you won't hurt each other. It just means you love them. Sometimes in spite of who they are, and sometimes because of who they are. And you know that they love you, sometimes because of who you are, and sometimes in spite of it.~ Laurell K. Hamilton 'Anita Blake: Incubus Dreams'

‎" Jangan terlalu menyayangi seseorang, kelak kita akan membencinya. Jangan pula terlalu membenci seseorang, kelak kita akan menyayanginya."

selama ini, kata-kata itu hanyalah kata-kata belaka.... adakah ia benar dan jujur seperti yang dikata... atau hanya untuk menyedapkan hati sahaja. mungkin kadang-kadang kita lupa... atau buat-buat lupa... kerana kita tahu... ianya hanyalah tipu belaka. kita takut..... kerana kejujuran itu amatlah pahit,.... pahit untuk ditelan..... tolonglah, berhenti menyebut 3 perkataan itu, sekiranya kau tak maksudkannya.

22 Februari 2011

If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but also because they are teaching you to love and open your heart and eyes to little things.

If someone hurts you, betrays you or breaks your heart, forgive them because they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to whom you open your heart.

Jika anda ingin Mencintai maka lihatlah Kelebihanya. Jika anda ingin Mengasihi maka lihatlah Kekuranganya.

definasi cinta dan perkahwinan menurut guru plato

Suatu hari, Plato bertanya kepada gurunya, “Apa itu cinta? Bagaimana saya boleh menemuinya?. Gurunya menjawab, “Ada ladang gandum yang luas didepan sana. Berjalanlah kamu dan tak  boleh undur kembali, kemudian pilih dan ambil satu sahaja ranting. Jika kamu menemukan ranting yang kamu anggap paling menakjubkan, ertinya kamu telah menemui cinta”  Plato pun berjalan, dan tidak seberapa lama, dia kembali dengan tangan kosong, tanpa membawa apapun.

Gurunya bertanya, “Mengapa kamu tidak membawa satupun ranting?” Plato menjawab, “Aku hanya boleh membawa satu saja, dan sewaktu berjalan tidak boleh undur kembali (berbalik)”. Sebenarnya aku telah menemukan yang paling menakjubkan, tapi aku tak tahu apakah ada yang lebih menakjubkan lagi di depan sana, jadi tak ku ambil ranting tersebut. Saat aku meneruskan  berjalan lebih jauh lagi, baru kusedari bahawasanya ranting-ranting yang kutemukan kemudian tak sebaik ranting yang tadi, jadi tak kuambil sebatangpun pada akhirnya” Gurunya kemudian menjawab ” Jadi ya, itulah cinta”

 

Di hari yang lain, Plato bertanya lagi pada gurunya, “Apa itu perkahwinan? Bagaimana saya boleh menemukannya?” Gurunya pun menjawab “Ada hutan yang subur didepan sana. Berjalanlah tanpa boleh undur kembali (menoleh) dan kamu hanya boleh menebang satu pokok saja. Dan tebanglah jika kamu menemukan pokok yang paling tinggi, kerana ertinya kamu telah menemukan apa itu perkahwinan” Plato pun berjalan, dan tidak seberapa lama, dia kembali dengan membawa pokok. Pokok tersebut bukanlah pokok yang segar / subur, dan tidak juga terlalu tinggi. Pokok itu biasa-biasa saja. Gurunya bertanya, “Mengapa kamu memotong pokok yang seperti itu?” Plato pun menjawab, “sebab berdasarkan pengalamanku sebelumnya, setelah menjelajah hampir setengah hutan, ternyata aku kembali dengan tangan kosong. Jadi dikesempatan ini, aku lihat pokok ini, dan kurasa tidaklah buruk sangat , jadi kuputuskan untuk menebangnya dan membawanya kesini. Aku tidak mau menghilangkan kesempatan untuk mendapatkannya” Gurunya pun kemudian menjawab, “Dan ya, itulah perkahwinan”

 

CATATAN  :
Cinta itu semakin dicari, maka semakin tidak ditemuai. Cinta adanya di dalam lubuk hati, jika  harapan dan keinginan yang berlebih akan cinta, maka yang didapat adalah kehampaan… tiada sesuatupun yang didapat, dan tidak dapat diundurkan kembali. Waktu dan masa tidak dapat diputar undur. Terimalah cinta apa adanya. 
____________ _________ _________ _________ _________ ________

Perkawinan adalah lanjutan dari Cinta. Ia adalah proses mendapatkan kesempatan, ketika kamu mencari yang terbaik diantara pilihan yang ada, maka akan mengurangi kesempatan untuk mendapatkannya, Ketika kesempurnaan ingin kau dapatkan, maka sia-sialah waktumu dalam mendapatkan perkawinan itu, kerana, sebenarnya kesempurnaan itu hampa adanya.