"Never change for someone. After you do, all they want you to do is change again. And as hard as it was to change the first time, to give up everything you knew, and be half empty afterwards, it's always harder the second time. As soon as you find some solid ground and feel like things are getting better, you'll have to change again, because now they want you back the way you were before. But you know that things can never go back the way they were before, and you try and tell them, but they don't believe you. They will always want you to change after you do the first time. And no matter what, they won't ever change for you."