People are capable of falling in and out of love so if your "true love" turns out to be abusive or makes you cry more than smile, end it and find a healthy person to love. Unconditional love does not care about that though. If you are going to be selfish and care about yourself you will never be in love

Take a walk. Whether it's in a park, or downtown, or wherever, walking for the sake of walking is a good way to see how you and your date get along. Can you two hold a conversation? Are your silences uncomfortable, or do you glance at each other and smile?

There is no future, there is no past. I live this moment as my last. There's only us, there's only this; forget regret, or life is yours to miss, no other road, no other way, no day but today......

remember people can’t make you happy, only you can. Sure others bring something to the table, but at the end of the day you need to know what makes you happy and what will keep you happy.

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Derick: I guess we are the left-overs in this world.


Lily: I think so...all of my friends have boyfriends, and we are the only the 2 people left in this world without any special person in our lives.


Derick: Yup, I don't know what to do.


Lily: I know! We'll play a game.


Derick: What game?


Lily: I'll be your girlfriend for 30 days and you will be my boyfriend.


Derick: That's a great plan, in fact, I don't have anything to do much for the following few weeks.


DAY 1: They watch their first movie and they both are touched by the romantic film.


DAY 4: They went go to the beach and have a picnic. Derick and Lily have their quality time together.


DAY 12: Derick invited Lily to a circus and they ride through a Horror House. Lily was scared and she thought she touched Derick's hand but she actually touched someone else's hand they both laughed.


DAY 15: They saw a fortune teller down the road, and they asked for their future advice.The fortune teller said: "My darlings, please don't waste the time of your life, spend the rest of your time together, happily." Then tears flowed out from the teller's eyes.


DAY 20: Lily invited Derick to go to the hill and they saw a meteor; Lily mumbled something.


DAY 28: They sat on the bus, and because of a bumpy road Lily gave her first kiss to Derick by accident.


DAY 29: 11:37 pm: Lily and Derick sat in the park where they first decided to play this game.


Derick: I'm tired Lily...Do you want anything to drink? I'll buy you one...I'll just go down the road.


Lily: An Apple Juice, that's all. Thank you.


Derick: Wait for me.


20 minutes later A stranger approached Lily


Stranger: Are you a friend of Derick?


Lily: Yes, why? What happened?


Stranger: A reckless drunk driver ran over Derick, and he is in critical condition in the hospital.


11:57 pm:The doctor walked out of the emergency room; he handed Lily an apple juice and a letter.


Doctor: We found this in Derick's pocket.


Lily reads the letter and it says: Lily, These past few weeks, I realized you are a really cute girl, and I am really falling for you-your cherished smile, your everything when we played this game. Before this game ends, I would like you to be my girlfriend for the rest of my life.I love you, Lily.


Lily crumpled up the paper and shouted:


"Derick! I don't want you to die-I love you; remember that night when we saw a meteor and I mumbled something. I mumbled that I wish we would be together forever and that we would never have to end this game. Please don't leave me Derick .. I love you! You can't do this to me!"


Then the clock strikes 12...


Derick's heart stopped pumping...


It was the 30th day.

Create romance within yourself first. We often try to "get" our partners to be more romantic by believing we need to change them in order to have what we want. The truth is that you are much more likely to have what you want when 'you' show up in that way. For example, create your own romantic mood--dress, put on music, prepare sensuous foods, take some time to love and appreciate yourself. It will not take long for your partner to join in the fun!

But like all things, love takes work and understanding and is never easily obtained. True love takes patience and compromise from both sides. When this is accomplished, it can flourish for many, many years.

im in love :P

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Girls can give their heart away but they can't take it back, and they know it. If you aren't going to be a worthy keeper of her heart, don't try to win it.

People are capable of falling in and out of love so if your "true love" turns out to be abusive or makes you cry more than smile, end it and find a healthy person to love. Unconditional love does not care about that though. If you are going to be selfish and care about yourself you will never be in love - see commitments.

Never say you don't have a chance with someone when you haven't even asked. Let your heart speaks.....

"Find somebody new to love someday..take the time you need to heal, but don't forget to eventually share ur heart with someone."

Listen.

 Actually listening to somebody is the single most important rule you'll ever learn about people -especially women. Listen to what they have to say. All people have dreams, fears, hopes and thoughts. Listening to them will be the greatest gift you can give to anybody, great or small, wise or ignorant, and if you can do that for them, they'll love you in return.

Realize that breaking up is just a normal part of life.

 Yes, breaking up is difficult - but like it or not, this is a normal part of adolescent and adult life, and as much as it's painful, it's also very normal. Sometimes you'll be the "dumper", sometimes you might be the "dumpee". We all experience heartbreak; it hurts – but we all survive it, and you (and your ex) will too.

Stop making excuses for why they didn't call, didn't email you back, made you feel bad, or any other negative way they might have treated you. Don't ever think they are sitting around thinking about you--because, even if you are an incredible person, he/she is probably wrapped up in their own life. If they feel interested in you, they will take the initiative to contact you. Since they are not doing that, it means they are not interested in you.

Sometimes, we become obsessed because we believe that one person we are obsessing over is the only person who will ever love us or we believe they are our "one true love." Never think of anyone in that way--that is only an ideal, not truth. If it didn't work out, then it most likely wasn't meant to be.

Don't obsess over finding your soulmate. Coming off as needy and desperate for love is not attractive to a soulmate--or anyone else, for that matter!

Have you ever wanted or looked for something, but only found it when you stopped looking? The same principle might work for finding your soulmate. Become so busy with your life that you totally forget about meeting your soulmate and, odds are, that's when your soulmate will pop up.

If you're with someone who is manipulative or abusive in any way, rest assured that you are NOT with your soulmate. Break it off as quickly as possible, or else you might never meet your soulmate because you're too busy dealing with an unhealthy relationship.

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