If you have it [love], you don't need to have anything else, and if you don't have it, it doesn't matter much what else you have. - Sir James M. Barrie

We take a risk when we open our hearts because the truth is, if we open our hearts, we will get hurt. You can't open your heart and not have some hurt because you're in a human experience. Even if it's the love of your life and you have many wonderful, deepening, growing, powerful years together, it's a human experience, and that person will pass over. Love takes courage. Be courageous. - Mary Manin Morrissey

Don't tell me you love me; show me that you do.

Missing someone isn't about how long its been since you've seen them last or the amount of time since you've talked. It's about that very moment when you're doing something and you wish that they were right there with you...

"Love does not begin and end the way we seem to think it does. Love is a battle; love is a war; love is a growing up." - James A. Baldwin

true love is hard to find yet even harder to hide

I guess grief is the price we pay for love, huh?

When someone we love leaves us, it doesn't mean we should be bitter. It only means we need someone better. Love in a relationship ends for a reason and departs with a lesson....

we try we try but still we make mistake

love jgn di carik, nya akan dtg kedirik

Sometimes it takes a huge loss to remind you of what you care about the most. Sometimes you find yourself becoming stronger as a result, wiser, better equipped to deal with the next big disaster that comes along… But not always.

I can choose where to be, when to be. And I have. I have chosen.

sekuat mana saya setia,sehebat mana saya merancang, sejauh mana saya menunggu,sekeras mana saya bersabar,sejujur mana saya menerima awak.......jika ALLAH tidak menulis jodoh kita bersama...kita tetap tidak akan bersama....

If yoU LoVE tWo pEopLE At thE sAmE tImE, cHoOsE thE sEcONd One, bEcaUsE If YoU rEaLLy LovEd thE FiRsT OnE.. YOu WoULdn'T haVE FaLLeN FoR tHE sEcoNEd...

When I love, I love with no limitations, but if my partner betray me, I love myself enough to let go.

CRY~crying is a release of emotion. When you've had a good cry, you feel like you've cleared your head. cry for everything - and generally feel better afterwards. Some people feel ashamed or afraid to but I treat it the same way as laughing - it's just a reaction to something. It doesn't make you weak, in fact it can make you stronger because it helps you get something out your system..

I've learned...that there are people who love you dearly, but just don't know how to show it.

"you don't realize how much you care about someone till they don't give a shit about you"

i want to forgive but i still hate you. i dont know how to stop.

"u need to let me go. even if u thinking about me, let it be just yours. let me go. let.... me... go..."

Love isn't a decision. It's a feeling. If we could decide who we loved, it would be much simpler, but much less magical.

"When I say, "I love you," it's not because I want you or because I can't have you. It has nothing to do with me. I love what you are, what you do, how you try. I've seen your kindness and your strength. I've seen the best and the worst of you. And I understand with perfect clarity exactly what you are. You're a hell of a woman."

"Don't wait. The time will never be just right."

that thing, that moment, when everything around you becomes hazy.. and the only thing in focus is you and this person..and you realise that that person is the only person you should be kissing for the rest of your life.. and for one moment you get this amazing gift.. and you wanna laugh and you wanna cry cuz you feel so lucky that you found it and so so scared that its all gonna go away all at the same time.

Perasaan disayangi dengan perasan disayangi adalah dua perkara yang berbeza

No Love No Glory..

“Being yourself is what makes you attractive. Being something you’re not makes you a liar. And relationships built on lies don’t last.”

If you love me so much, then why didn't you choose me ?

YES! I have been thinking of u (Just incase u were wondering!)

"You know your in love when all you can think about is that one special person and you can't stand to be away from them for more then 1 second. You miss them even though they're standing right next to you. You fall asleep thinking about them, and dream about them every night."

IN MY OPINION THE BEST THING YOU CAN DO IS FIND A PERSON WHO LOVES YOU EXACTLY AS YOU ARE...

I'M SLOW TO TRUST, BUT QUICK TO LOVE. I WISH TOO HARD AND I GIVE TOO MUCH. I'M NOT SAYING I'M PERFECT... BUT I PROMISE I'M WORTH IT!

"Kiss like nobody's watching, and love like it's never gonna hurt"

"Life is all about risks and it requires you to jump. Don't be a person who has to look back and wonder what they would have, or could have had. No one waits forever..."

"They called us crazy behind our backs; 'romantic fools.' We just let them laugh, because we knew: it may be a long shot; we may be lonely down the line, but love knows no reason, and I won't let them make up my mind."

"Why do I see you in everything I do? Why does every song remind me of you? I guess it's because no matter how hard I try, I just can't fall out of love with you."

Gareth Gates - unchained melody

Whoa! My love, my darling,
I hunger for your touch,
Alone. Lonely time.
And time goes by, so slowly,
And time can do so much,
Are you still mine?
I need your love.
I need your love.
God speed your love to me.

Lonely rivers flow to the sea, to the sea,
To the open arms of the sea.
Lonely rivers sigh, wait for me, wait for me,
I'll be coming home, wait for me.

Whoa! My love, my darling,
I hunger for your touch,
Alone. Lonely time.
And time goes by, so slowly,
And time can do so much,
Are you still mine?
I need your love.
I need your love.
God speed your love to me.

‎'if someone seriously wants to be a part of your life,they will seriously make an effort to be in it. No reasons.No excuses.'

"When this is said and done, I really hope you look back and wonder if maybe falling in love with me wasn't such a bad idea."

Dan sekali lagi mata kita bertentang, dan sekali lagilah kita saling memandang, dan sekali lagilah senyuman itu terukir. begitulah ianya sekali lagi.

Life is short, live it. Love is rare, grab it. Anger is bad, dump it. Fear is awful, face it. Memories are sweet, cherish them.

I love you *erases*. I miss you *erases. * Can we talk? *erases*.Hi *sends*

NO and YES are two short words which need a long thought.Most of the things we miss in life are because of saying NO too early and YES too late...

EVERY MAN SHOULD KNOW...? When to try harder... and WHEN TO WALK AWAY..

"The most painful love there is, is the love left unshown; A love that cannot be expressed; affection left unknown. The love that withholds touching, afraid of what it would say, And the most painful thing about unexpressed love is... it never fades away."

"I don't want to get too attached and then be hurt later."

"When you look for the right person, you always end up with the wrong one. But when you just sit by the corner and wait, she comes along and shares the corner with you."

Tell me why are we, so blind to see That the ones we hurt, are you and me

You must understand the whole of life, not just part of it. That is why you must read, you must look at the skies, you must sing, you must dance, you must write poems, you must suffer, and you must understand. For all that . . . is life

The worst feeling is not being lonely..its when some1 makes you special n suddenly leaves you hanging and you have to pretend that you dont mind at all..

After you've been dating for a while, realize that they really have started to trust you. When you have a girlfriend who truly trusts you, you have a lot more responsibility, privilege and control than you would think. Be careful with it, most guys would kill for that kind of power, and it can be lost in a nanosecond.

When someone walks out of your life, let them. they are just making more room for someone better to walk in.

if u want people 2 love u,stop hurting urself n b a better man.if u want 2 love someone,let her go n let her b happy wit someone else.if u really love her,distance n time not a matter juz WAIT.If u believe in TRUE LOVE then it will show up someday depending on u.

"You've got to accept the fact that life isn't a fairy tale, things aren't always happily ever after. Things like magic wishes, Prince Charmings and true love don't happen in real life. Magic wishes come from money, Prince Charming's a shallow idiot with a bad haircut and overpriced clothes. And true love? Ha, true love is one-sided, Ace. You love her, she loves someone else. She loves you, you love someone else. Never quite works out does it? So you end up with some actor pretending to be your true love. Real considerate of someone to let you know reality was like that before being thrown into it. 'If you wish, it'll happen.' Well, wish in one hand and crap in the other and see which one fills up faster. Welcome to reality. Enjoy your stay."

"Love? It's kind of complicated, but I'll tell you this ... the second you're willing to make yourself miserable to make someone else happy, that's love right there."

"It's easy to convince yourself that you aren't in love with someone...until you see them in the hallway, or smell someone wearing their cologne, and then you're like, 'here we go again.' So my conclusion is this: you don't ever stop loving someone. It's more a matter of learning to deal with the pain of not having them anymore." - Felicity

For every girl with a broken heart , theres always a boy with a glue gun :)

Whatever life hands you, you pick yourself up and keep right on going. you got to let go of the life you were planning... In order to accept the one that's waiting for you. follow your bliss," which is pretty dope. And wherever the road takes you, always remember to celebrate the little victories.

"you can try your hardest, you can do everything and say everything, but sometimes people just aren't worth trying over anymore, they aren't worth worrying about, it's important to know when to let go of someone who only brings you down."

"What I want is you -- but there's no sense in arguing that point since you seem so determined to refute it." - Dawson's Creek

"So maybe things between us were too good, ya know? Maybe we reached the point where things couldn't get any better...so they just had to get worse... and maybe that's why you left me for him. Maybe things between you guys were always rocky....maybe you liked it like that. Or maybe, maybe I just wasn't enough." - JoAnne Golden

"Some days you think you can hold it together.. other days you just gotta let it go.."

"Never change for someone. After you do, all they want you to do is change again. And as hard as it was to change the first time, to give up everything you knew, and be half empty afterwards, it's always harder the second time. As soon as you find some solid ground and feel like things are getting better, you'll have to change again, because now they want you back the way you were before. But you know that things can never go back the way they were before, and you try and tell them, but they don't believe you. They will always want you to change after you do the first time. And no matter what, they won't ever change for you."

"See, that's the thing about second chances. It's two people that are there for each other and support each other and care about each other no matter how much they want to deny it. It's about one person doing everything they can to make sure the other doesn't fall and vice-versa. Second chances are about holding on to that other persons hand no matter how hard they beg to let go." - Jacqueline Kelly

"Everything you said last night was true. We do belong together. We're both sick and twisted. If you think about it, we're incredibly fortunate to have even found each other." - Gossip Girl

"Tonight I'm happy. I will worry about tomorrow when tomorrow comes." - PS, I LOVE YOU by Cecilia Ahern

You can’t force yourself to stop liking someone, but you can tell yourself that you deserve better and try to move on.

"Here's the thing about having a relationship: you can never look for it. It's like when you lose your keys, if you look for them, you'll never find them. You just have to wait for them to pop up under the couch or something. So I'm playing it as patient as I can. I'm not going to rush into having a relationship just because I'm lonely sometimes. I'm waiting for the right person."

People who belong together, stay together despite major setbacks & disagreements. They may deal in fault & blame temporarily, but ultimately they work things out. Love conquers all; in sickness & in health.

"It takes two to tango, but one to let go." - The Wallflowers

"The word 'busy' is the relationship Weapon of Mass Destruction. It seems like a good excuse, but in fact, in every silo you uncover, all you're going to find is a man who didn't care enough to call. Remember: men are never too busy to get what they want."

"It's been said that you only truly fall in love once, but I don't believe it. Every time I see you, I fall in love all over again."

"Don't let anyone ever make you feel like you don't deserve what you want" - 10 Things I Hate About You

Have you ever been in love? How it rips you apart and then puts you together. It carries you to the heavens and then smashes you to the ground.

"I just want you to believe in me like in the old days. I just want your wonderful, tender eyes to look at me like they did then."

The right one for you will accept & love you for who you ARE..not who they want you to be...

"The being in love is better than the falling in love."

‎"They didn’t agree on much. In fact, they didn’t agree on anything. They fought all the time and challenged each other ever day. But despite their differences, they had one important thing in common. They were crazy about each other." — Nicholas Sparks (The Notebook)

"Without you in my arms, I feel an emptiness in my soul. I find myself searching the crowds for your face - I know it's an impossibility, but I cannot help myself." — Nicholas Sparks (Message in a Bottle)

"Nothing that’s worthwhile is ever easy. Remember that." — Nicholas Sparks (Message in a Bottle)

wherever i go, there's always have a pieces of memory that i couldnt erase.. sigh~

Missing You. . . Is Not The Hard Part !!! But . . . Knowing That I Once Had You … Is What Breaks My Heart . . . !!!

................. but im in love with you.

kenapa mesti hubungan percintaan adalah rumit? jawapannya adalah kerana kita takut, takut dengan diri sendiri. takut yang hubungan itu akan berjaya. jadi kita rumitkan keadaan supaya hubungan itu tidak berjaya. sekarang baru saya tahu kenapa hubungan kita tidak berjaya. kerana kau telah merumitkan hubungan ini. dan sebenarnya tak semua hubungan percintaan itu rumit rupa-rupanya. kerana ada juga orang yang tak takut hubungan mereka akan berjaya.

kerana sesetengah orang dan sesetengah kisah, sekali ianya berlaku ianya menjadi kenangan untuk seumur hidup.

some people do spend their life together

I laugh, I love, I hope, I try I hurt, I need, I fear, I cry. And I know you do the same things too, So we're really not that different, me and you. -- Colin Raye

Time goes by a lot slower when you miss the one you love. -- Source Unknown

I don't want a perfect relationship. I just want someone who I can act silly with, someone who treats me well and loves being with me. someone who can baby talk to me, let me cuddle all the time and treat me right. mana bantal peluk aku ni?

There are 3 great things in this world: The first thing is for you to love someone, The second thing is for someone to love you back, the third greatest thing is for the first and second thing to happen at the same time.

Courage means to keep working a relationship, to continue seeking solutions to difficult problems, and to stay focused during stressful periods. ~ Denis Waitley

You don't need to depend on people who are gonna let you down.

Ketahuilah.. Tiap harinya, tiap jam, minit dan detiknya, telah aku lewati dengan selalu jatuh cinta padamu.. Maka, cintailah aku, dengan apa adanya aku..

Dear brain, give me a break. Get that someone out of my mind, please.

Relationships don’t need promises, terms, and conditions. It just needs two wonderful people; one who can trust and one who can understand.

You can’t force yourself to stop liking someone, but you can tell yourself that you deserve better and try to move on. ~ Zaifirra Fahanna

Learn to become still. And to take your attention away from what you don't want, and all the emotional charge around it, and place your attention on what you wish to experience. - Michael Beckwith

Most women reinforce a man's negative behavior thinking it's a part of love. Pain isn't love! You teach a person how to treat you by what you ignore, what you stop, and what you reinforce.

LADIES: When men don't get space, they usually take it and when that happens, there's usually a woman being neglected. Don't let that woman be you! Smothering your man ain't gone do nothing but push him away... Its a known fact that even a fire needs air.

The keeper of your heart is the most important position you will ever fill. Sort thru your applications carefully...

Jumping from relationship to relationship with out healing is like putting perfume over funk. Heal first...love later.

Anger toward an ex will transition to anger toward the next...forgiving isn't just for them, it's for you

Each failed relationship is a stepping stone to a successful one. Be patient, move forward...it gets better

You can't make the same mistake twice, the second time around it's no longer a mistake...it's a choice

I feel like men are more romantic than women. When we get married we marry 1 girl. Cause we’re resistent the whole way until we meet 1 girl & we think I’d be an idiot if I didn’t marry this girl she’s so great. But it seems like girls get to a place where they just kidna pick the best option or something. I know girls that married they’re like. “Oh he’s got a good job.” I mean they spend their whole life looking for Prince Charming and then they marry the guy who’s got a good job and is gonna stick around.

otak ku dah mereng, hatiku di landa penyakit angau ~ p. ramlee

Today, if a smile comes to you, a happy smile the perhaps you can't explain, it's because at that moment, I am thinking of you and smiling too!

First love's all right as far as it goes. Last love, that's what I'm interested in.

Does your name begin with..

Does your name begin with: A
U are not particularly romantic, but you are interested in action. You mean business. With you, what you see is what you get. You have no patience for flirting and can't be bothered with someone who is trying to be coy, cute, demure, and subtly enticing. You are an up-front person. You often don't get hints & you ever pass any. Brains turn you on. You must feel that your partner is! intellectually stimulating, otherwise you will find it difficult to sustain the relationship. You require loving, cuddling, wining, and dining to know that you're being appreciated. Your mate's physical attractiveness is important for you. You tend to be very Practical, & not very emotional Your choices are very good & can only lead to trouble. You are very self satisfied & egoistic. 

Does your name begin with: B
You give off vibes of lazy sensuality. You enjoy being romanced, wined, and dined. You are very happy to receive gifts as an expression of the affection of your lover. You want to be pampered and know how to pamper your mate. You are private in your expression of endearments, and particular when it comes to love. You will hold off until everything meets with your approval. You can control your appetite & feelings. You require new sensations and experiences. You are willing to experiment. 

Does your name begin with: C
You are a very social individual, and it is important to you to have a relationship. You require closeness and togetherness . You want the object of your affection to be socially acceptable and good-looking. You see your lover as a friend and companion. You are very sensual, Needing someone to appreciate and almost worship you. When this cannot be achieved, you have the ability to hold out on affection until you receive this.. You are an expert at controlling your desires and doing without.

Does your name begin with: D
Once you get it into your head that you want someone, you move full Steam ahead in your suit. You do not give up your quest easily. You are nurturing and caring. If someone has a problem, this turns you on . You are highly passionate, loyal, and intense in your involvement's, sometimes possessive and jealous. You are very sharp & talented often with sense of humour. When people bother to look deep inside they cannot resist what they see. You are stimulated by the eccentric and unusual, having a free and open attitude. You get jealous of other people and lose your temper . 

Does your name begin with: E
Your greatest need is to talk . If your date is not a good listener, you have trouble relating. A person must be intellectually stimulating or you are not interested sexually. You need a friend for a lover and a companion You hate disharmony and disruption, but you do enjoy a good argument once in a while-it seems to stir things up. You flirt a lot, for the challenge is more important. But once you give your heart away, you are uncompromisingly loyal. You will fall asleep with a good book. sometimes, in fact, you prefer a good book to a lover

Does your name begin with: F
You are idealistic and romantic, putting your lover on a pedestal. You look for the very best mate you can find . You are a flirt, yet once committed, you are very loyal. You are sensuous and privately passionate. Publicly, you can be showy, extravagant, and gallant. You are a born romantic. Dramatic love scenes are a favourite fantasy past time. You can be a very generous lover. 

Does your name begin with: G
You are fastidious, seeking perfection within yourself and your lover. You respond to a lover who is your intellectual equal or superior, and one who can enhance your status. You are sensuous and know how to reach the peak of stimulation, because you work at it meticulously. You can be extremely active-never tiring out. Your duties and responsibilities take precedence over everything else. You may have difficulty getting emotionally close to people. 

Does your name begin with: H
You seek a mate who can enhance your zest for life , fun & everything You seek for. You will be very generous to your lover once you have Attained a commitment. You are very affectionate & very strong. Your gifts are actually an investment in your partner. Before the commitment, though, you tend to be very careful with your every move and equally cautious in your involvement's often as you believe that you have to look out for yourself. You are a sensual and patient lover. You will hold off till everything meets your full approval. You are a perfectionist , hard to satisfy and strong in your beliefs. Not influential, you always stand your ground. People can always count on you to stand by them in a crisis. You are a dreamer with/ a passion for life. 

Does your name begin with: I
You have a great need to be loved, appreciated... even worshiped . You enjoy luxury, sensuality, and pleasures of the flesh. You like necking spend hours just touching feeling & exploring. You look for lovers who know what they are doing. You are not interested in an amateur, unless that amateur wants a tutor. You are fussy and exacting about having your desires satisfied. You are willing to experiment and try new modes of  expression . You bore easily and thus require adventure and change. Your commitments don't last very long & you often tend to stray. Loyalty is not one of your strong points. You are more sensual than sexual, but you are sometimes downright lustful.

Does your name begin with: J
You are blessed with a great deal of physical energy. When used for a good cause there is nothing to stop you, except maybe that they aren't always used for the good. (you could dance all night.) You respond to the thrill of the chase and the challenge of the mating game.You can carry on great romances in your head. At heart you are a roamer and need to set out on your own every so often. You will carry on long- distance relationships with ease. You are idealistic and need to believe in love. You have a need to be nurtured deep within.

Does your name begin with: K
You are secretive , self-contained, and shy. You are very sexy, sensual, and passionate, but you do not let on to this. Only in intimate privacy will this part of your nature reveal itself. When it gets down to the nitty-gritty, you are an expert. You know all the little tricks of the trade, can play any role or any game , and take your love life very seriously. You don't fool around. You have the patience to wait for the right person to come along. You are very generous & giving, often selfless. You are kind-natured & sweet, which is found to be attractive by many. You are a good friend.

Does your name begin with: L
You can be very romantic, attached to the glamour of love. Having a partner is of paramount importance to you. You are free in your  expression of love and are willing to take chances, try new sexual experiences and partners, provided it's all in good taste. Brains turn you on . You must feel that your partner is intellectually stimulating, otherwise you will find it difficult to sustain the relationship. You require loving, cuddling, wining, and dining to know that you're being appreciated. "You require loving, cuddling, wining, and dining to know that you're being appreciated ".

Does your name begin with: M
You may appear innocent, unassuming and shy; but we know that Appearances can lie. When it comes to sex, you are no novice but something of a skilled technician. You can easily go to extremes, though, running the gamut from insatiability to boredom with the whole idea of love. You can be highly critical of you mate, seeking perfection in both of you. It is not easy to find someone who can meet your standards. You have difficulty expressing emotions and drawing close to lovers. You are often selfish, thinking you are always right no matter what. You never give in. Winning is your prime desire- at any cost. You often forget friends and family and you live for the moment. 

Does your name begin with: N
You are emotional and intense . When involved in a relationship, you Throw your entire being into it. Nothing stops you; there are no holds barred. You are all-consuming and crave someone who is equally passionate and intense. You believe in total freedom . You are willing to try anything and everything. Your supply of energy is inexhaustible. You want to be pampered and know how to pamper your mate. You also enjoy mothering your mate. You often have the greatest love affairs all by yourself, in your head. You are very imaginative.

Does your name begin with: O
You are very interested in fun activities yet secretive and shy about your desires. You can re-channel much of your energy into making money and/or seeking we. You can easily have extended periods of celibacy. You are a passionate, compassionate lover, requiring the same qualities From your mate. Love is serious business; thus you demand intensity, diversity and is willing to try anything or anyone. Sometimes your passions turn to possessiveness , which must be kept in check.

Does your name begin with: P
You are very conscious of social proprieties. You wouldn't think of Doing anything that might harm your image or Reputation. Appearances count . Therefore, you require a good-looking partner. You also require an intelligent partner. Oddly enough, you may view your partner as your enemy...a good fight stimulates those vibes . You are relatively free of hang- ups.You are willing to experiment and try new ways of doing things.You are very social and sensual; you enjoy flirting and need a good deal of physical gratification.

Does your name begin with: Q
You require constant activity and stimulation. You have tremendous physical energy . It is not easy for a partner to keep up with you. You are an enthusiastic lover and tend to be attracted to people because of their ethnic groups. You need romance, hearts and flowers, and conversation to turn you on and keep you going.

Does your name begin with: R
You are a no-nonsense, action-oriented individual . You need someone who can keep pace with you and who is your intellectual equal-the smarter the better. You are turned on more quickly by a great mind than by a great body. However, physical attractiveness is not very important to you. You have to be proved to be worthy for a partner. You have a need to prove yourself the best . You want feedback on your performance. You are open, stimulating & romantic.

Does your name begin with: S
For you, it is pleasure before business. You can be romantically idealistic to a fault and is capable of much sensuality. But you never loose control of your emotions. Once you make the commitment you stick like glue . You could get jealous and possessive. You tend to be very selfish often regarding yourself as the only human being on the planet.. You like being the centre of attention. You are very caring sensitive, private & sometimes very passive. Turned on by soft lights, romantic thoughts. When it gets down to the nitty-gritty, you are an expert . You know all the little tricks of the trade, can play any role, or any game, and take your love life very seriously. You don't fool around. You have the patience to wait for the rightperson to come along. You are very generous & giving, often selfless. You are kind nature & sweet which is found to be attractive by many. You are a good friend.

Does your name begin with: T
You are very sensitive, private & sometimes very passive. You like someone who takes the lead. You get turned on by music , soft lights & romantic thoughts. You fantasize & tend to fall in & out of love soon. When in love you are romantic, idealistic, mushy & extremely. You enjoy having your senses & your feelings stimulated, titillated & teased. You are a great flirt . You can make your relationships fit your dreams, all in your own head. Once you put your mind to something you manage to stand by it and see your dreams through. You aren't very good at expressing your feelings. You like things your own way. You do not like change, you like to hold on to things. This may not always be good because if given an opportunity things may develop into great things. You work your way to the top. Attention must be given to what others say because even though you don't want to hear it their advice may turn out to save your life. !

Does your name begin with: U
You are enthusiastic & at your happiest when in love . When not in love you're in love with love and always looking for someone to adore. You see romance as challenge. You are a roamer & needs adventure, excitement freedom. You enjoy giving gifts & looking good. You are willing to put others feelings above yours. 

Does your name begin with: V
You are individualistic & you need freedom, space & excitement. You wait till you know someone well before committing yourself. Knowing someone means psyching her/him out. You feel a need to get into his/her head to see what makes him tick. You are attracted to eccentric types. You believe that age is no barrier. You are good at responding to danger, fear & suspense. 

Does your name begin with: W
You are very proud , determined & refuses to take no for an answer when it come to love. Your ego is at stake all the time. You are romantic, idealistic, often in love with love itself, not seeing your partner for who she or he really is. You feel deeply about love & tends to throw all of your self into a relationship. Nothing is too good for your lover. You like playing love games. 

Does your name begin with: X
You need constant stimulation because you get bored quickly . You can handle more than 1 relationship at a time with ease. You can't shut off your mind. You can do 2 things at once. You are very talented. 

Does your name begin with: Y
You are sensual & very independent. If you can't have it your way, you will forget the whole thing . You want to control your relationships which doesn't work out too well. You respond to physical stimulation. However if you can make money you will give up the pleasures of the flesh for the moment. You have a need to prove yourself the best. You want feedback on your performance. You are open, stimulating & romantic.

Does your name begin with: Z
You are very romantic but show feels that to love means to suffer . You wind up serving your mate & attracting people who have unusual trouble. You see yourself as a lover's saviour. 

Refuse to hang out in Relationship Purgatory. It's either YES or NO or it's time to go! sometimes you've just gotta give up the ghost and move on.

The difference between LIKE, LOVE and INLOVE is the same as the difference between FOR NOW, FOR AWHILE and FOREVER

2nd chance means NOTHING if nothing was LEARNED from the 1st..

LOVING is not having the right over someone. its about how you really feel...

Never act until you have clearly answered the question: "What happens if I do nothing?"

You know it's love when you want to keep holding hands even after you're sweaty. -- Anonymous

"Inside the heart of each and every one of us there is a longing to be understood by someone who really cares. When a person is understood, he or she can put up with almost anything in the world." ~ by Rev Ed Hird ~

If you are willing to stand up in front of your friends and family and God and commit yourself... to another human being, to give of yourself in that kind of partnership, for better or worse, in sickness and health, that is a marriage. That is real. And that's all that matters.

cemburu itu bahaya. umpama garam dalam masakan. sedikit sudah cukup. kalau lebih mendatangkan penyakit... so tak payah la nak cemburu sangat ye.

life isn't about keeping score. it's not about how many people call you and it's not about who you've dated, are dating, or haven't dated at all. it isn't about who you've kissed, what sport you play, or which guy or girl likes you. it's not about your shoes or your hair or the color of your skin or where you live or go to school. in fact, it's not about grades, money, clothes, or colleges that accept you or not. life isn't about if you have lots of friends, or if you are alone, and it's not about how accepted or unaccepted you are. life just isn't about that. But life is about who you love and who you hurt. it's about how you feel about yourself. it's about trust, happiness, and compassion. life is about avoiding jealousy, overcoming ignorance, and building confidence. it's about what you say and what you mean. it's about seeing people for who they are and not what they have. most of all, it is about choosing to use your life to touch someone else's in a way that could never have been achieved otherwise. these choices are what life's about.

I love you as you are, as you seek to find your own special way to relate to the world, or the way you feel that is right for you. It is important that you are the person you want to be and not someone that I or others think you should be

Love has nothing to do with the five senses & the six directions: its goal is only to experience the attraction exerted by the Beloved

“This is your life. Do what you love, and do it often. If you don’t like something, change it. If you don’t like your job, quit. If you don’t have enough time, stop watching TV. If you are looking for the love of your life, stop; they will be waiting for you when you start doing things you love. Stop over analyzing, life is simple. All emotions are beautiful. When you eat, appreciate every last bite. Open your mind, arms, and heart to new things and people, we are united in our differences. Ask the next person you see what their passion is, and share your inspiring dream with them. Travel often; getting lost will help you find yourself. Some opportunities only come once; seize them. Life is about the people you meet and the things you create with them, so go out and start creating. Live your dream, and wear your passion. Life is short."

Life Quotes

There are things that we don't want to happen but have to accept, things we don't want to know but have to learn, and people we can't live without but have to let go. ~Author Unknown

Tak kupinta malapetaka Yang jatuh menimpa dan menguji cinta kita

Namun daku tak sanggup lihat mu Mengorban hidupmu semata-mata untukku

Wahai sayang Kau sepatutnya dicinta jejaka yang lebih sempurna

Jangan pula dikau salah sangka Ku mungkiri janji ku tak mencintai lagi

Tapi kini izin ku undur diri Kerana ku tak mampu untuk membahagiakanmu

Memang sayang untukku melepaskanmu

Biarku tanggung deritaku

Pergilah sayang

Dirimu kan tetap daku kenang

Setiap malam berlinang airmataku Jadi perangsang

merindu mu sayang

Dakaplah daku untuk kali terakhir

Oh kasihku

Berikanku peluang ku menatapi wajahmu

Agar abadi di ingatanku

“How does one become a butterfly?" she asked. "You must want to fly so much that you are willing to give up being a caterpillar.”

Andy Williams - Can't Take My Eyes Off You (Singing, Live! Year 1967)

You're just too good to be true
Can't take my eyes off of you
You'd be like heaven to touch
I wanna hold you so much
At long last love has arrived
And I thank God I'm alive
You're just too good to be true
Can't take my eyes off of you

Pardon the way that I stare
There's nothing else to compare
The sight of you leaves me weak
There are no words left to speak
But if you feel like I feel
Please let me know that it's real
You're just too good to be true
Can't take my eyes off of you

I love you baby
And if it's quite alright
I need you baby
To warm the lonely night
I love you baby
Trust in me when I say...
Oh pretty baby
Don't bring me down I pray
Oh pretty baby
Now that I've found you stay
And let me love you baby, let me love you

You're just too good to be true
Can't take my eyes off of you
You'd be like heaven to touch
I wanna hold you so much
At long last love has arrived
And I thank God I'm alive
You're just too good to be true
Can't take my eyes off of you

I love you baby
And if it's quite alright
I need you baby
To warm the lonely night
I love you baby
Trust in me when I say...
Oh pretty baby
Don't bring me down I pray
Oh pretty baby
Now that I've found you stay
And let me love you, baby let me love you

Jangan mencintai seseorang seperti bunga, kerana bunga mati kala musim berganti. Cintailah mereka seperti sungai, kerana sungai mengalir selamanya.

Do not love someone like flowers, because flowers die when the season is changed. Love them like a river, because the river flows forever.

kadang-kadang kenapa sesorang itu tidak membuat pilihan adalah kerana mereka takut, takut sekiranya pilihan yang dibuat itu adalah salah. tetapi adakah anda seorang penakut? atau seorang yang berani.... berani membuat pilihan dalam hidup dan bertanggungjawab serta menerima segala kesan dan akibat dari pilihan tersebut. kerana disebalik pilihan itu terdapat sesuatu..... sesuatu yang anda mahukan, sesuatu yang anda benar-benar mahukan dalam hidup anda. atau, sebanarnya anda tak mahu, dan sebab itu, anda tidak membuat pilihan, dan itu juga satu pilihan.

Never say goodbye if you still want to try. Do not give up if you still can. Do not say you did not love him anymore if you still can not forget. Jangan sesekali mengucapkan selamat tinggal jika kamu masih mau mencuba. Jangan sesekali menyerah jika kamu masih sanggup. Jangan sesekali mengatakan kamu tidak mencintainya lagi jika kamu masih tidak dapat melupakannya.

The sad thing in life is when you meet someone who really means to you. Only to find that in the end becomes meaningless and you have to let it go. Hal yang menyedihkan dalam hidup adalah ketika kamu bertemu seseorang yang sangat berarti bagimu. Hanya untuk menemukan bahawa pada akhirnya menjadi tidak bererti dan kamu harus membiarkannya pergi.

relationship is support about anything , not fight about anything.

The beginning of love is letting someone you love to be himself, and not turn it into a picture that you want. If not, you just love the reflection of yourself that you find in himself. ~ Permulaan cinta adalah membiarkan orang yang kamu cintai menjadi dirinya sendiri, dan tidak merubahnya menjadi gambaran yang kamu inginkan. Jika tidak, kamu hanya mencintai pantulan diri sendiri yang kamu temukan di dalam dirinya.

a wise man sat in the audience and cracked a joke. everyone laughed like crazy. after a moment, he cracked the same joke again. this time, less people laughed. he cracked the same joke again until there's no more laughter to b heard. and he smiled and said " you cant laugh over the same thing again and again, but why can u cry over the same thing again and again?"

We lose people we love because they are meant to love someone else. We lose them because we are destined to find somebody else. It is a simple fact that is sometimes hard to accept because we are too stupid to let go.

"If you don't trust me, then why are we even here?"

Do you really wish things should work out for the better? No matter how much you hate him/her, the bottom line remains you also are in love with the same person and break ups can be tough really! If you still have a feeling of longing to be with him/her, then try to know if there can be a solution rather than walking out on your partner. This will at least give you the satisfaction you have tried

Life never leaves you empty, It always replaces everything you lost, If it asks you 2 put something,Down, it's because, it wants you 2 pick up something better

Why distance is always a problem for most guys?? In my own opinion, distance is an obstacle and if u can face the challenges it will show how much u care and love someone. If there is NEVER a chance to b together, dats what when u should be concerned and decide.

Women always worry about the things men forget. Men always worry about the things women remember.

“Love comes to those who still hope even though they've been disappointed, to those who still believe even though they've been betrayed, to those who still love even though they've been hurt before.”

If you cant get someone out of your head maybe they're supposed to be there

You keep pretending you don't love me and i'll keep pretending your not worth it

jangan tinggalkan orang yang kita sayang untuk orang yang kita suka.... sebab orang yang kita suka akan tinggalkan kita untuk orang yang mereka sayang......

kenapa kita ditinggalkan :(

‎Before you speak,listen ¤ Before you write,think ¤ Before you spend,earn ¤ Before you invest,steady financial ¤ Before you check,do survey ¤ Before you ambush,investigate ¤ Before you criticize,wait&look at our own self ¤ Before you pray,forgive ¤ Before you quit,try again ¤ Before you retire,save as much you can ¤ Before you die,repent&pray to God and Give all to your love ones '

"Perfect love is rare indeed - for to be a lover will require that you continually have the subtlety of the very wise, the flexibility of the child, the sensitivity of the artist, the understanding of the philosopher, the acceptance of the saint, the tolerance of the scholar and the fortitude of the certain." - Leo F. Buscaglia (1924-1998) American Psychologist, Author, Educator

Christina Perri - Jar of Hearts

I know I can't take one more step towards you

Cause all that's waiting is regret
And don't you know I'm not your ghost anymore
You lost the love I loved the most

I learned to live half alive
And now you want me one more time

And who do you think you are
Running 'round leaving scars
Collecting your jar of hearts
And tearing love apart
You're gonna catch a cold
From the ice inside your soul
So don't come back for me
Who do you think you are

I hear you're asking all around
If I am anywhere to be found
But I have grown too strong
To ever fall back in your arms

And I've learned to live half alive
And now you want me one more time

And who do you think you are
Running 'round leaving scars
Collecting your jar of hearts
And tearing love apart
You're gonna catch a cold
From the ice inside your soul
So don't come back for me
Who do you think you are

Dear, it took so long just to feel alright
Remember how to put back the light in my eyes
I wish I had missed the first time that we kissed
Cause you broke all your promises
And now you're back
You don't get to get me back

And who do you think you are
Running 'round leaving scars
Collecting your jar of hearts
And tearing love apart
You're gonna catch a cold
From the ice inside your soul
So don't come back for me
Don't come back at all

And who do you think you are
Running 'round leaving scars
Collecting your jar of hearts
And tearing love apart
You're gonna catch a cold
From the ice inside your soul
Don't come back for me
Don't come back at all
Who do you think you are?
Who do you think you are?
Who do you think you are?

"A bell's not a bell 'til you ring it - A song's not a song 'til you sing it - Love in your heart wasn't put there to stay - Love isn't love 'til you give it away!" - Oscar Hammerstein (1895-1960) American Song Writer

"What we need to know about loving is no great mystery. We all know what constitutes loving behavior; we need but act upon it, not continually question it. Over-analysis often confuses the issue and in the end brings us no closer to insight. We sometimes become too busy classifying, separating, and examining, to remember that love is easy. It's we who make it complicated." - Leo F. Buscaglia (1924-1998) American Psychologist, Author, Educator

“If you have to think about whether you love someone or not then the answer is no. When you love someone you just know.”

"Love means to commit oneself without guarantee, to give oneself completely in the hope that our love will produce love in the loved person. Love is an act of faith, and whoever is of little faith is also of little love." - Erich Fromm (1900-1980) German-American Psychoanalyst, Social Philosopher

"Love is an act of endless forgiveness, a tender look which becomes a habit." - Peter Ustinov (1921-2004) English Actor, Author, Director

forgive doesnt mean forget, it mean u will let go of it and not bring it on later. if u still bring it up in the future it mean u simply still not forgive it.

how much do you love someone?

so in love with this song :)

Anuar Zain - The Memories Remain

i can see the sadness in your eyesand every teardrop that you cryi hope you knowit's hard to let you go
the time is here i have to say goodbyei laid my life i've seen the lighti hope you knowit's hard to let you go
i swear to be the shadow by your sideto be the shining starto light the darkness of your nighti will survive
*in the endas i cross the line of life and theni find my way back in your heart againand i promise i will stayforever and a daythe memories remain
i wanna be the pillar of your strengthto give you hope until the endno matter where i will be thereas long as you will let me stayi'll be with you through night and dayno matter when and where i will be there
i swear to be the shadow by your sideto be the shining starto light the darkness of your nightyou will survivekeep me alive
repeat * 2x

how bad could it be? but remember, not be in there with the one that you love is worse.

saya paham betapa susahnya nak lupakan sesorang, terutamya seseorang yang telah memainkan peranan yang cukup besar dalam hidup kita. yang mengajar erti rindu, yang mengajar tentang kasih sayang, yang membuat kita anggau, yang membuat kita jadi tak menentu. memang susah nak lupakan seseorang macam ni. keranan janji-janji manis, kerana kata-kata manis. waktu tu semuanya indah indah belaka. kenangan inilah yang sukar nak dilupakan sebenarnya kan kan :)

I don't know if I like you or love you, want you or need you, all I know is I love the feeling I get when I'm near you. :)

the thing about relationship is either u r in or u r out. if u r in, handle it but if u r out, stop telling a victim story. Victim story = Someone had done something and you felt they are partly to blame for what has happened. Someone to deceive you, bring out you unfairly, deceive you, betray the trust you have put on them and you think you not to blame, but instead, them.

Sometimes you walk past a pretty girl on the street and there's something beyond beauty in her face, something warm and smart and sensual and inviting, and in the three seconds you have to look at her, you actually fall in love, and in those moments, you can actually know the taste of her kiss, the feel of her skin against yours, the sound of her laugh, how she'll look at you and make you whole. And then she's gone, and in the five seconds afterwards, you mourn her loss with more sadness than you'll ever admit to.

There comes a point where you just love someone. Not because they're good, or bad, or anything really. You just love them. It doesn't mean you'll be together forever. It doesn't mean you won't hurt each other. It just means you love them. Sometimes in spite of who they are, and sometimes because of who they are. And you know that they love you, sometimes because of who you are, and sometimes in spite of it.~ Laurell K. Hamilton 'Anita Blake: Incubus Dreams'

‎" Jangan terlalu menyayangi seseorang, kelak kita akan membencinya. Jangan pula terlalu membenci seseorang, kelak kita akan menyayanginya."

selama ini, kata-kata itu hanyalah kata-kata belaka.... adakah ia benar dan jujur seperti yang dikata... atau hanya untuk menyedapkan hati sahaja. mungkin kadang-kadang kita lupa... atau buat-buat lupa... kerana kita tahu... ianya hanyalah tipu belaka. kita takut..... kerana kejujuran itu amatlah pahit,.... pahit untuk ditelan..... tolonglah, berhenti menyebut 3 perkataan itu, sekiranya kau tak maksudkannya.

If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but also because they are teaching you to love and open your heart and eyes to little things.

If someone hurts you, betrays you or breaks your heart, forgive them because they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to whom you open your heart.

Jika anda ingin Mencintai maka lihatlah Kelebihanya. Jika anda ingin Mengasihi maka lihatlah Kekuranganya.

definasi cinta dan perkahwinan menurut guru plato

Suatu hari, Plato bertanya kepada gurunya, “Apa itu cinta? Bagaimana saya boleh menemuinya?. Gurunya menjawab, “Ada ladang gandum yang luas didepan sana. Berjalanlah kamu dan tak  boleh undur kembali, kemudian pilih dan ambil satu sahaja ranting. Jika kamu menemukan ranting yang kamu anggap paling menakjubkan, ertinya kamu telah menemui cinta”  Plato pun berjalan, dan tidak seberapa lama, dia kembali dengan tangan kosong, tanpa membawa apapun.

Gurunya bertanya, “Mengapa kamu tidak membawa satupun ranting?” Plato menjawab, “Aku hanya boleh membawa satu saja, dan sewaktu berjalan tidak boleh undur kembali (berbalik)”. Sebenarnya aku telah menemukan yang paling menakjubkan, tapi aku tak tahu apakah ada yang lebih menakjubkan lagi di depan sana, jadi tak ku ambil ranting tersebut. Saat aku meneruskan  berjalan lebih jauh lagi, baru kusedari bahawasanya ranting-ranting yang kutemukan kemudian tak sebaik ranting yang tadi, jadi tak kuambil sebatangpun pada akhirnya” Gurunya kemudian menjawab ” Jadi ya, itulah cinta”

 

Di hari yang lain, Plato bertanya lagi pada gurunya, “Apa itu perkahwinan? Bagaimana saya boleh menemukannya?” Gurunya pun menjawab “Ada hutan yang subur didepan sana. Berjalanlah tanpa boleh undur kembali (menoleh) dan kamu hanya boleh menebang satu pokok saja. Dan tebanglah jika kamu menemukan pokok yang paling tinggi, kerana ertinya kamu telah menemukan apa itu perkahwinan” Plato pun berjalan, dan tidak seberapa lama, dia kembali dengan membawa pokok. Pokok tersebut bukanlah pokok yang segar / subur, dan tidak juga terlalu tinggi. Pokok itu biasa-biasa saja. Gurunya bertanya, “Mengapa kamu memotong pokok yang seperti itu?” Plato pun menjawab, “sebab berdasarkan pengalamanku sebelumnya, setelah menjelajah hampir setengah hutan, ternyata aku kembali dengan tangan kosong. Jadi dikesempatan ini, aku lihat pokok ini, dan kurasa tidaklah buruk sangat , jadi kuputuskan untuk menebangnya dan membawanya kesini. Aku tidak mau menghilangkan kesempatan untuk mendapatkannya” Gurunya pun kemudian menjawab, “Dan ya, itulah perkahwinan”

 

CATATAN  :
Cinta itu semakin dicari, maka semakin tidak ditemuai. Cinta adanya di dalam lubuk hati, jika  harapan dan keinginan yang berlebih akan cinta, maka yang didapat adalah kehampaan… tiada sesuatupun yang didapat, dan tidak dapat diundurkan kembali. Waktu dan masa tidak dapat diputar undur. Terimalah cinta apa adanya. 
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Perkawinan adalah lanjutan dari Cinta. Ia adalah proses mendapatkan kesempatan, ketika kamu mencari yang terbaik diantara pilihan yang ada, maka akan mengurangi kesempatan untuk mendapatkannya, Ketika kesempurnaan ingin kau dapatkan, maka sia-sialah waktumu dalam mendapatkan perkawinan itu, kerana, sebenarnya kesempurnaan itu hampa adanya.